Relax Bill... it's not about being flawless or trusting. No need to be defensive.
All I am saying is that, like it or not, we're all constantly making an impression. > I think anyone on this list knows I'm competent at what i do. There > are times we all stop worrying about appearances and just be > ourselves. I do that here. Others do that when they go out drinking. > Or when they hang out with friends. To me these are my friends and > I'm > going to just relax and be myself flaws and all. > > I'm a good person, i have a big heart. I'm VERY good at what i do in > the top percentile ranking on all the tests I've taken for it. I am > unique. I am an asset. Some of the worlds most successful people were > dyslexic. So when I'm doing things that are non-personal then i do > have to spend a good deal of time rereading comments because i do > find > myself making mistakes. If someone does not like how i spell in the > part of my life that i consider personal then so be it. I have no > trouble finding work. > > I totally get what you're saying that i have to keep up my image. But > do you not agree we all have to have time to just be ourselves? Maybe > you will say this is not the place to relax since my next boss could > be on this list. And maybe you are right but this list is my > sanctuary. CFCOM has helped me through everything important in my > life > since i was 17. Getting married, divorced, wife leaving me, best > friend killing himself, work trouble, scumbag bosses, my boss > impersonating me on cfjobs to try replacing me, etc etc. I trust the > people here with all that i am. And perhaps i should not be so > trusting because it could turn around and bite me in the ass. > > But that is a character flaw i am too nice, i am too trusting, i am > too forgiving. My life has been a list of things that would not have > happened if i was not such a trusting and forgiving person. Hell i > hold no harsh feelings to my ex-wife (btw divorce was final last week > guys yay!). > > > > > > On 12/8/05, Jillian Koskie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > My father would (in my opinion, correctly) argue that you are always > making an impression on people. And an impression that 'I couldn't > care less because you guys aren't important' isn't the one I'd like to > step forward with. > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Find out how CFTicket can increase your company's customer support efficiency by 100% http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=49 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:186632 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
