> -----Original Message----- > From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Tuesday, March 14, 2006 10:26 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: RE: Being Gay: Nature or Nurture? > > > Now, admittedly that was more in my youth... nowadays, > > well - I just don't > > like anybody. > > Given... But having a relative who's gay and being immersed in gay > culture because you're trying to participate in it for yourself are > not the same thing. Heterophobes will self-select themselves out of > the environment where a straight person might be videotaping a wedding > if they don't know for a fact that everyone at the wedding _will_ be > gay. Sad but true. I'd ask her about heterophobes, you might be > surprised that she's got some stories. But yes, not all environments > are the same, so it may be that the mainstream gay culture in that > area doesn't really have heterophobes. I would find that surprising, > but certainly not impossible.
Well... it may also be a generational thing - her mother is in her 50's. But the community in that area is pretty laid-back all around (Kingston/Woodstock/etc). ;^) For the first two years we were in Boston we shared a three bedroom apartment with two others, both gay. (It was actually kind of nice for me since our female roommate and her girlfriend were both pretty damn hot) Carol was going to school and I'm pretty much naturally anti-social (and was putting in upwards of 60 hours working at 7-11) so they were pretty much the "social directors" for the apartment. There were parties and get-togethers most weekends. Of course you're point stands there as well... they may have had friends that refused to visit an apartment harboring "breeders", but they didn't mention them. It was an odd time for me... I owned the TV and VCR and (since the 7-11 I worked at was also a video store) the video club membership: if anybody ever digs into my past they'll find a HUGE amount of gay porn rented in my name during those two years. How do you think the governments "total information system" would classify that. ;^) Jim Davis ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:200156 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
