sounds a lot like job snobbedness if y'asked me. tw
On 3/22/06, Loathe <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Yeah holmes, you girl needs to hit McDonalds like now. > > > -- > Tim Heald > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > 703-300-3911 > -----Original Message----- > From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 3:27 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: RE: frustrated... > > > Ok, > > > You really, really, really need to find a lawyer. > > She's screwing you four ways to Sunday. While you're obligated to > > support your kids. You are in no way shape or form obligated to > > support her. Unless in the divorce papers it explicitly says you must > > pay child support AND alimony. > > The judge's order included "temporary" alimony. It's been temporary for 5 > years now. > I researched what would be involved in filing the papers when we were in > Dallas and it costs me $40 to get a _copy_ (a $0.05 photocopy) of the paper > that I would need to fill out to file anything. > > > Even then, alimony isn't designed to completely support her. > > You're absolutely right. There was $300/mo in temporary alimony and then a > little while back they eliminated the temporary alimony and simultaneously > increased both the arrearage amount, _and_ the amount per month for the > children. The remaining $1600/mo is supposed to be for my 3 kids. Never once > did I ever spend $1400/mo on those kids (original amount) until the ex > kicked me out of the house and filed for divorce (and the judge illegally > prohibited me from appearing in court, which I also couldn't afford to > fight). So even if I had the couple hundred or couple grand it would take to > go back to court and fight the alimony for that slim chance they'd have > given that to me for the extra $300/mo, it's moot because they already > removed that award. > > > Take out a f'ing loan if you have to, with the money you'll save you > > can pay it off. > > If I could take out a loan (which I can't) then I'd be able to hire an > attorney, yes. Since I can't, it's moot, but thanks for the suggestion. > > People don't seem to understand when I say I don't have money, I don't mean > "I'm so broke, I've only saved up $10k toward my retirement!" ... > I literally have no money -- have not had -- have had negative amounts of > money for 5 years. The only way that I was even able to attend cf.Objective > to speak was by taking on extra contract work (which I'm still working on, > and just barely reaching enough cash now to pay my rent for the upcoming > month). > > > s. isaac dealey 434.293.6201 > new epoch : isn't it time for a change? > > add features without fixtures with > the onTap open source framework > > http://www.fusiontap.com > http://coldfusion.sys-con.com/author/4806Dealey.htm > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:201242 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
