Sorry you have to go through this. A few of things to consider.
#1. Anger is personal. I used to take stuffed animals and a baseball bat out into the backyard. Worked on both a physical and emotional release. While in the Marines, I broke out some Black Flag (the Band, not bug juice) one night and a couple cans of spray paint and commenced to "spray paint the walls" and several uniforms in my room which was in the barracks. I was up bright and early the next day looking for paint. I had to repaint my entire room before anyone saw it. Hey lots of work but I got whatever was bothering me out of my system. #2. Sometimes on the way home from work, I stop at a park, or where ever for 10 or 15 minutes and do whatever, read, think, sleep, walk ... It gives me a few minutes to unwind, gain perspective and be in better place before I walk through the door. #3. My wife and I lost four in a row between our two daughters. Very devastating. However, no matter how hard it was on me it was much worse for her. She felt responsible, she thought she wasn't good enough to have a child, etc.... You may want to vent elsewhere and just be there for support. She may need the support more than you. #4. Miscarriages are womens / society's unspoken reality. If you have shared this with friends and family you have probably found many of them have gone through similar experiences. #5. After talking to doctors and doing research etc.. Some say that as many as 1:5 pregnancies end in miscarriage. Although 1:7 seems to be a more accepted number. #6. When you get to the right place, you do get the pleasure of trying again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Deploy Web Applications Quickly across the enterprise with ColdFusion MX7 & Flex 2 Free Trial http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJU Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:235184 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
