First off, let me offer my condolenses. My wife and I have been trying for 8 years with no effect.
>so.. my wife and i have been trying to get pregnant for about a year or two. >we gave up a few months back & then got pregnant. then at the first >ultrasound at 7-8 weeks we heard no heart beat. Her level dropped over >the next week or two. then on mothers day we lost the fetus. spent >about 5 hours in the local ER, was real scary. > I know the anger and resentment that brings. Here's what I do when these hit me: - Avoid the hooch. Alcohol never makes a bad situation better. - Go for a drive in the country. If I get the blues at work, I'll take a different way home, but it goes through some woods and sugar cane fields regardless. - Get your wife a little something. My wife sews and has an embroidery machine, so I get her a new color of thread or a set of needles she says she needs. It doesn't have to be much. - Treasure your friends, especially those with children. Thank them for sharing thier family with you. - Do something outrageous. If you can't laugh at yourself, who can you laugh at? >now i am experiencing some thing i have never quite felt before. >we as a couple are good.. but out of the blue i get hit with deep, >dark, depression.. a few hours or minutes will pass and then again out >of no where i become angry.. Congrats on this. We thought it happened on her last cycle ourselves. She started almost 10 days late. >good news is that we can conceive! >also, every thing happened naturally. > Hey, see my last point above. >so if a some of my posts recently offended any one, i apologize. >rant/spout over. >-paul ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Create Web Applications With ColdFusion MX7 & Flex 2. Build powerful, scalable RIAs. Free Trial http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJS Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:235175 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
