>That's what I was gonna ask. When she said "she'd wait for mommy to come >home" it kinda stated that Judith lets her do things you don't - in which >case you aren't on the same page. > >I know it's not cheap - but if you really value your relationship with her >(which we know you do) - go to family counseling for several sessions. It's >worth it in the long run. Really. Treat her like the adult she's trying to >be, and sit her in front of a stranger and the three of you tell them >exactly what you feel - whether you like it or not. > >Hard exercises, but good for you.
+100 on the family counseling. It can really help. Knowing you and Judith somewhat, and by extension your kids, I'd really like to suggest you may want to check out the Albert Ellis Institute, http://www.rebtinstitute.org/public/. They do some really good work, and its a therapeutic approach that would really fit with your personal style. larry ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramatic release to date Get the Free Trial http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;207172674;29440083;f Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:296499 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5
