> Grant wrote: > days later they're back together and all our cards are on the table. I > learned that day that sometimes saying nothing is the best thing to do. >
Yup, that's the problem. Although I think of it more like a teenager who, during summer of his junior year in high school, given the luxury of generous parents, starts thinking he's a playboy: money to spend, lots of free time, birddoggin' the chicas, hangin' with the bro's ... If you're always there to subsidize and help them they'll always expect it and if something goes wrong they'll definitely blame you for not preventing it. It's tough love kind of, as grim as that is to say. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Want to reach the ColdFusion community with something they want? Let them know on the House of Fusion mailing lists Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:299137 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
