++10000 for truth On Wed, Mar 31, 2010 at 11:38 AM, G Money <[email protected]> wrote: > > I'll just give you the other side of that........marry her if marriage is > nothing short of a mere formality. > > Marrying my then girlfriend changed nothing in our lives. We had a big > ceremony and everyone had a great time, but nothing changed. Marriage should > not change how you feel, how you interact, how you care for each > other.....anything. If marriage changes something, or will change something, > then that would be a red flag. > > If truly care for each other, and marriage is nothing more than a ceremony > to emphasize it...then by all means get married. My wife and I have had > nothing but good times....it IS possible to be "happily married" :) > > As for hte proposal, I went the traditional route. Nice restaurant, down on > one knee after the main course, before hte dessert. As for the > anxiety...several drinks helped me :) > > On Wed, Mar 31, 2010 at 10:24 AM, Vivec <[email protected]> wrote: > >> >> I agree. Don't rush to marry. It complicates things. >> Unfortunately most women expect and want it (and their families...and their >> female friends..). >> >> Pre-nups work in the United States though. So it may be worthwhile to have >> that discussion. >> >> On 31 March 2010 10:51, Ras Tafari <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> > >> > if you love her dont marry her. >> > if you never marry her, you can never get divorced. >> > the odds are WAY in your favor if you dont. >> > >> > trust me. >> > >> > ive been to battle twice. >> > trust me. >> > >> > >> >> >> > >
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