Do you have any hobbies? Or anything at all you enjoy doing by yourself? There are times when my wife can sense my stress levels and basically tells me to go play golf.
Golf, for me, has always been 'my thing'. When I am on the golf course, I think of nothing but my next shot. I check all the things causing me stress at the first tee...sadly, I usually have new things replace it, like my inability to putt or getting out of a sand trap Trust me, nothing put your stressors in perspective more than trying to hit a small white ball into a seemingly smaller hole, hundreds of yards away with tool sill-equipped for the task. :D Also, take some time for each other. Even if its just dinner, it really does not need to be an entire night out. Also, if there are any hobbies your wife enjoys, make sure she partakes in them. Raising kids is tough, and there is nothing wrong with taking some time to relax and recharge. Not doing so could be detrimental to you kids and your relationship with them and with your relationship with your wife. On Wed, Sep 29, 2010 at 8:36 PM, morchella <[email protected]> wrote: > > so almost a year of being a dad. and i dont know if i am starting to get > depressed or what. the crying now makes me want to cry. > if there is a sappy bit in a movie, i now weep. FOR NO fncking REASON!!!! i > am tired of every one, dogs, bayby, wife crying for no reason... > no i dont need counseling. just some advice from people who may have been > there or seen some thing similar online, on tv or in a comic. > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-Anthology-Michael-Dinowitz/dp/1430272155/?tag=houseoffusion Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:328233 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm
