She is a victim of domestic violence...you can tell because there is a video of domestic violence. Now, how she chooses to frame that for herself, what she chooses to believe and how she wants to respond to it, that is totally up to her. I may have my own personal opinions but that doesn't matter, I support her choosing how she wants to handle it. And is it a situation with ongoing abuse or a history of abuse? I don't know, maybe not. Still doesn't change the fact that she is a victim of domestic violence and he is a perpetrator.
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 8:51 AM, Vivec <[email protected]> wrote: > > You don't get to make what if decisions on the lives of other people, > without facts. > > Are you denying that couples get into a violent argument, and the > relationship is not an abusive one? > Are you denying that couples go to counselling, talk about it, work things > out, and can go on to have a happy family? > > On 10 September 2014 11:30, Scott Stroz <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > > So, hit her once, get a pass. Hit her again...now we have a problem? > > > > So, your solution is to do nothing until he hits her again? What if the > > next time he does permanent and/or fatal damage? > > > > I resent the implication that I am saying she is 'crazy' because I think > > she is involved in an abusive relationship, and goes to further my > opinion > > that you have never had any kind of experience with anyone in an abusive > > relationship. > > > > You sound even more like Rick. If that is truly how you feel, I am > > disappointed. > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-Anthology/dp/1430272155/?tag=houseoffusion Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:372419 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm
