Phillip; All sympathy, man.
When my girlfriend left she tried to relocate the daughter to Michigan (we lived in Maryland) and it was an enormous struggle to keep her from doing so. What is most important is what is best for the kids, and your wife's opinion about what that means is not necessarily the right one. You have to look out for them too, and there could be a lot of reasons for why this is happening. Maybe they just don't like stepdad, and spending more time with him could make the situation worse. Take the kids, on your own, to see a child psychologist (and mention it to no one). Many of them have a sliding scale payment system to fit your budget. Get down to the root of the problem and make up your own mind, based on solid evidence, what the real problem is. Then fight like hell. Don't let her use the courts as a threat. She will hold that over you for the rest of your life. M -----Original Message----- From: Phillip B [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, March 06, 2003 10:08 AM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: Need some advice Thanks Larry. I feel like she's using it as an excuse too. I just don't know the best way to handle it. Ever since the divorce it has been a nightmare trying to work out any issues we may have with the kids. She gets angry with me and then threatens to take me to court over it. Ugh! I feel like it will put more stress on the boys by spending less time with me. She doesn't seem to think so. I will get in touch with the school and see what they say. At least I might be able to find out who, if any one, agreed with her on changing the custody arrangement. You know its crap like this that makes not want to get married again. Phillip B ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?forumid=5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?method=subscribe&forumid=5 Signup for the Fusion Authority news alert and keep up with the latest news in ColdFusion and related topics. http://www.fusionauthority.com/signup.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
