I agree, personal attacks are not constructive and we should avoid them. I
also agree that Jochem seems to be almost scary good :) As for help, I can
use all the help I can get :)

plodding up the learning curve,
Dana

Dave Lyons writes:

> Dana,
> the last thing that is helpful on here is personal attacks! And I wasn't
> trying to attack anyone & I got some attacks on myself. My whole point was
> to check what to check what you wouldn't even thin about thinking about. And
> it appears that was actually the case. Being that as I understand it, the
> default website wasn't running. Which is something I surely would have
> missed off the bat as well.
> But it looks like all is good so hopefully everyone is happy now.
> And that jochem is going to be a very rich man someday! He's something
> else:)
> There is a ton of extremely intelligent people on here but I think hes a
> step ahead of everyone else.
> 
> As far as what you are doing with cf, I think that's pretty cool! I cant
> even think of the possibilities that I could have done if I had this
> knowledge back when I was in medicine.
> Im a newbie too but if you ever get stuck just know that I am here to try
> and help you even though im not a guru yet:)
> 
> Dave
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Dana Tierney" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "CF-Talk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Saturday, June 07, 2003 10:49 AM
> Subject: Re: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support attention ...
> 
> 
> > Dave, went to sleep before I got this last night. Was just trying to make
> > the discussion a little more focussed on actual problem solving. A lot of
> > people who obviously hadn't read the entire thread were making rather
> > personal remarks.
> >
> > I know what you mean about people being defensive as I have done time as
> > tech support at various levels ranging from AOL newbies to people writing
> > microscope drivers for an image processing software. Not to mention math
> > tutor.
> >
> > What I like about it is the possiblities it has for publishing data... I
> > run a website about a rare disease and most of the doctors who encounter
> it
> > have never heard of it. We have a patient registry and I am looking
> forward
> > to publishing anonymous data, (anonymous as the actual aswers are treated
> > as confidential). In other words, I would like to have a page along the
> > lines of; "Of (number) patients registered (number) are in (age range).
> > (number) reort no UTI's.... etc
> >
> > Has a lot of possibilities.
> >
> > Have a nice day :)
> > Dana
> >
> > Dave Lyons writes:
> >
> > > Dana, I'm right there with ya as a cf newbie:)
> > > however I did asp before and I spent A LOT of time on the MM boards
> helping
> > > people when I could, you know try to give back as those who have given
> too
> > > me.
> > > And this is something I saw all the time & I mean ALL the time.
> > > And like you I don't pretend to know the answer either. But given my
> back
> > > ground (3 medical degrees & owner of a real estate company) I have been
> > > through an amazing amount in my days. And I know that its human to
> overlook
> > > where the problem really lies. And trust me Dana, 10 years working
> 100-120
> > > hour weeks in the emergency room has taught me plenty!
> > >
> > > so for example, say no one on here suggests that maybe it is something
> on
> > > their machine but no one wants to piss them off so no one says anything.
> > > Sure maybe then no ones upset. BUT what if its suggested and the person
> > > takes offense and gets mad at the other person? Well I can bet u that
> the
> > > person will at least check it out even if they are mad. And if it
> doesn't
> > > help then they feel good that it is justified but if it does work, then
> of
> > > course they are happy and all is forgiven and they are happy. And its
> not
> > > like it doesn't happen, it happens all the time.
> > >
> > > So then does their install just decide that it isn't going to work on
> their
> > > machine just because? Umm, I don't think so. Or do they get a special
> copy
> > > of the disk because when they called to order it the sales person
> thought
> > > they were jerky so they sent them a "bad" copy, I don't think so.
> > >
> > > So then logically what's left?
> > >
> > > I'm pretty sure that their disk is the same one my host got, so that
> cant be
> > > it.
> > > But I'll be their server is set up differently, so that's got to be it.
> > >
> > > Ah jochem pointed out earlier, that he uses a 16 color card to optimize
> > > there bandwidth. So I asked him then why didn't he have troubles with
> his
> > > install? And he said (sorry if I miss quote, already deleted) that he
> hasn't
> > > upgraded because it wasn't ready for what he needed (I believe)
> > > And we all know that he must meticulously read the docs. So he knew and
> how
> > > did he know? cause he read the docs:)
> > > that still doesn't help mike though cause its not his server.
> > >
> > >
> > > You may think im nuts but think about what medicine is all about.
> > > It's nothing more than problem solving. And you learn to look in EVERY
> nook
> > > & cranny because the answer may lie where you would never think too
> look.
> > > That's all I have been saying.
> > >
> > > And I have offered to help.
> > > I'll set him up a folder right here, right now and he can try his stuff
> out
> > > to see. Giving someone remote access to your machine isn't the answer.
> > >
> > > I ask a lot of really basic easy answers on here & personally I have
> trouble
> > > with the easy stuff but the harder stuff is ok. Basically I overlook &
> try
> > > and make things harder or more complicated than they are. That's why I
> think
> > > they maybe doing the same...it happens.....all the time:)
> > >
> > > so Dana, what do u like best so far about working with coldfusion?
> > >
> > >
> > > dave
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > From: "Dana Tierney" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > To: "CF-Talk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > Sent: Saturday, June 07, 2003 1:27 AM
> > > Subject: Re: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support attention ...
> > >
> > >
> > > > Dave,
> > > >
> > > > I don't pretend to know the answer. I am very new to CF. If you do
> please
> > > > feel free to fix the problem. Doug has offered remote access to his
> > > > machine. Seems like that might be a more constructive step than
> drawing an
> > > > analogy to times you failed to read the instructions.
> > > >
> > > > Dana
> > > >
> > > > Dave Lyons writes:
> > > >
> > > > > im sorry, I missed the part where u r being such a big help to
> everyone.
> > > > > so lets hear your words of wisdom:)
> > > > >
> > > > > In dougs next message he says it pretty clearly
> > > > > "especially one in which the server admin chooses NOT to allow the
> > > default
> > > > > web site to run"
> > > > >
> > > > > =
> > > > >
> > > > > I don't think its MM fault that the host chooses to do this.
> > > > > Of course if I had a solution I would promptly say what it was.
> > > > >
> > > > > Its not mikes fault we all know that, im not faulting mike or doug.
> > > > > hell I offered to see if I could get mike set up on the server I use
> &
> > > im
> > > > > sure a deal coulda been worked out that woulda made him happy but he
> > > choose
> > > > > not to even acknowledge it. And then others have don't the same &
> still
> > > > > nothing.
> > > > > I've had many times where I tried to install something & it didn't
> work
> > > just
> > > > > to find out it was because of how I had configured the settling and
> that
> > > =
> > > > > my fault.
> > > > >
> > > > > and many people have offered to help both. But I don't think many
> people
> > > can
> > > > > actually do telepathy on their machines to see how they are
> configured.
> > > > >
> > > > > so you may not be seeing me as trying to help but I am.
> > > > > just the same as u may be trying to help but I don't see it.
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > > > From: "Dana Tierney" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > To: "CF-Talk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > Sent: Saturday, June 07, 2003 12:59 AM
> > > > > Subject: Re: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support attention
> ...
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > > yanno maybe I should rescind my vote about this thread staying on
> > > talk. Or
> > > > > > gee, how about anyone that has an actual suggestion, feel free,
> anyone
> > > > > that
> > > > > > just wants to suggest these guys haven't done their homework
> either
> > > hush
> > > > > up
> > > > > > or take Doug up on his offer.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Dana
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Dave Lyons writes:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > course I'd be happy if everyone got it to work:)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > but I think what a lot of people forget is that everything
> doesn't
> > > go
> > > > > with
> > > > > > > everything else.
> > > > > > > like the sun commercial "I just want this too work with that"
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Its like would anyone expect to put  DVD into a cd-rom drive
> then
> > > curse
> > > > > it
> > > > > > > cause it wont work?
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Or this: I sell this VCD disks on eBay right. And I put right on
> the
> > > ad
> > > > > that
> > > > > > > it will work with most DVD players, please check your equipment
> to
> > > be
> > > > > sure
> > > > > > > it's compatible with yours before you buy.
> > > > > > > And yet all the time I get emails back all pissed off cause it
> wont
> > > play
> > > > > on
> > > > > > > their equipment. SO I ask for the model # and I look it up &
> sure as
> > > > > sh*t it
> > > > > > > says that it wont play VCD disks right there. So I write the
> people
> > > back
> > > > > and
> > > > > > > say, well its right there on the front page. But they didn't
> check.
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > I guess my point is that the options or the things you fail to
> look
> > > at
> > > > > > > usually end up being where the problem lies. (learned that the
> hard
> > > way
> > > > > from
> > > > > > > my 3 medical degrees & 10 years in the er room)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > know don't take this wrong because I'm not putting anyone down
> are
> > > > > trying to
> > > > > > > insult anyone. But think about it, how many times on here have
> you
> > > scene
> > > > > > > someone upset and ranting at MM to only be in the end going "oh,
> I
> > > was
> > > > > my
> > > > > > > bad the whole time"
> > > > > > > I have scene that on almost every single one.
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Its hard in his case because he cant get into the server & find
> out
> > > > > what's
> > > > > > > going on. personally, I hope you both find your solutions:)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > dave
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > > > > > From: "Doug White" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > > > To: "CF-Talk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > > > Sent: Friday, June 06, 2003 11:38 PM
> > > > > > > Subject: Re: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support
> attention
> > > ...
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > Ha! my problem was somewhat different.  when installing
> updater 3
> > > from
> > > > > the
> > > > > > > > console, the system freezes up and after a power down reboot,
> the
> > > OS
> > > > > will
> > > > > > > not
> > > > > > > > load to the point of the login screen, requiring the repair
> disks
> > > and
> > > > > > > recovery
> > > > > > > > console, manually removing all CFMX stuff, and starting over.
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > But I doubt all is lost at this point, because I am receiving
> > > phone
> > > > > calls
> > > > > > > and
> > > > > > > > email from some folks at MM to assist, and perhaps by this
> time
> > > next
> > > > > week,
> > > > > > > I
> > > > > > > > will be a happy camper again.  At least I don't have to call
> the
> > > other
> > > > > > > side of
> > > > > > > > the planet, like Michael does.
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > The other bad news was that the Spurs lost game 2 to the
> Knicks.
> > > > > > > >
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> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > > > > > > From: "Charlie Arehart" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > > > > To: "CF-Talk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > > > > Sent: Friday, June 06, 2003 10:04 PM
> > > > > > > > Subject: RE: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support
> attention
> > > ...
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > | Wow, hopefully someone will take you up on the offer. It's a
> > > great
> > > > > way
> > > > > > > for
> > > > > > > > | someone who really wants to to be able to solve the problem
> with
> > > a
> > > > > > > working
> > > > > > > > | failure (what an oxymoron!)
> > > > > > > > |
> > > > > > > > | But it sounds like you're referring to something other than
> the
> > > > > simple
> > > > > > > "CFMX
> > > > > > > > | not starting after reboot", right? Just want to clarify.
> > > > > > > > |
> > > > > > > > | /charlie
> > > > > > > > |
> > > > > > > > | > -----Original Message-----
> > > > > > > > | > From: Doug White [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > > > > > > > | > Sent: Friday, June 06, 2003 11:06 PM
> > > > > > > > | > To: CF-Talk
> > > > > > > > | > Subject: Re: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support
> > > attention
> > > > > ...
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > Hey Charlie
> > > > > > > > | > I am not proud.  I will give someone remote access to my
> box
> > > with
> > > > > > > > | > full admin
> > > > > > > > | > privileges and let them try to install the updater.
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > I did finally get CFMX running sans updater.
> > > > > > > > | > I even tried it via the command line parameters someone
> sent
> > > to
> > > > > > > > | > me - no joy.
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > This is a fresh new box - all the goodies and a fresh OS
> > > install
> > > > > > > > | > with nothing
> > > > > > > > | > else (yet) except URLScan (and yes, I know how to
> configure
> > > that
> > > > > > > > | > to run with CF)
> > > > > > > > | > to interfere.
> > > > > > > > | > It does have the requirement to support multiple web site
> > > > > > > (multi-homed)
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > Doug
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > ======================================
> > > > > > > > | > Stop spam on your domain, use our gateway!
> > > > > > > > | > For CF hosting solutions http://www.clickdoug.com
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> > > > > > > > | > ======================================
> > > > > > > > | > If you are not satisfied with my service, my job isn't
> done!
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > ----- Original Message -----
> > > > > > > > | > From: "Charlie Arehart" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > > > > | > To: "CF-Talk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > > > > > > | > Sent: Friday, June 06, 2003 6:30 PM
> > > > > > > > | > Subject: RE: Very unsatisfied with Macromedia's support
> > > attention
> > > > > ...
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > | > | The inability of CFMX to run at startup is not new nor
> > > unique
> > > > > > > > | > to Mike.  My
> > > > > > > > | > | machine has suffered the problem for many months. It's
> not a
> > > > > > > production
> > > > > > > > | > | server but my laptop, so I haven't gotten excited about
> it,
> > > but
> > > > > I
> > > > > > > can
> > > > > > > > | > | understand Mike's frustration with the problem.
> > > > > > > > | > |
> > > > > > > > | > | I do like some of the solutions that have been offered,
> and
> > > > > indeed
> > > > > > > will
> > > > > > > > | > | likely apply one of them myself, but in Mike's case if
> he
> > > needs
> > > > > > > > | > the problem
> > > > > > > > | > | solved on a box where the Admin's won't apply one of
> those
> > > > > > > > | > fixes, I think
> > > > > > > > | > | it's understandable that he wants it solved.
> > > > > > > > | > |
> > > > > > > > | > | Of course, problems like this can be notoriously
> difficult
> > > to
> > > > > > > resolve.
> > > > > > > > | > | Sometimes they are resolved as user errors, or indeed to
> > > > > > > configuration
> > > > > > > > | > | issues such as the now-infamous 16-color video card. The
> > > best
> > > > > > > > | > we can hope is
> > > > > > > > | > | that someone will read this thread and offer the
> definitive
> > > > > > > > | > answer, if not
> > > > > > > > | > | MM. Then we'll all get and hopefully spread the word so
> > > others
> > > > > > > > | > don't suffer
> > > > > > > > | > | it.
> > > > > > > > | > |
> > > > > > > > | > | /charlie
> > > > > > > > | > |
> > > > > > > > | >
> > > > > > > > |
> > > > > > > > |
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > >
> > > >
> > >
> > 
> 
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