Rob,
When did I ever bring up Dane's name? Interesting. I realize that
Dane is in the battle of his life, and thank God he is doing well. I
wish him no ill will. I'm thrilled that he is doing well and will
soon return to his family and his loved ones.
I don't belong to any "group of 6" club. I just bonded to a bunch of
incredibly knowledgeable and talented individuals that share my sense
of decency and honesty and care about the well-being of myself and my
family. These individuals helped me through my darkest days of being
dx'd with cml.. and have walked me through the tunnel of dispair and
sadness and helped direct me to the path of acceptance and moving on
with my life. For that, I am eternally grateful. If you want to
slam me for the bond that I have formed with these individuals, go
ahead. It doesn't matter. We just wanted to give input and improve
the group. I'm sorry you feel so threatened. It was never the
intent to do that. Lynn
--- In [email protected], Rob <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> First of all please have the human decency to leave Dane out of this
> since he is recovering from a BMT. He has not commented on any of
this
> and is not involved in any of this.
>
> Once again I am sorry the Group Of Six did not like the way the
group
> was operated back then and still does not like the way the group
> operates now. The group is operated for the benefit of all of the
> members not just six. I did consider suggestions that were made but
I
> did not feel that turning the group over to the Group Of Six (or the
> persons they selected as their proxies) was in the best interest of
> the group nor did I think that putting in place the "standards of
> decency" they wanted for the group was appropriate. No one has
> appointed the Group Of Six to determine what the others in the group
> should be able to read and say. It is unfortunate that the same
people
> who complain about disruptions on the list are often the very same
> people who cause the disruptions in the group.
>
> Whether it is one of the small vendettas or the large vendettas
> against me I am getting it from all directions at once.
>
> Rob
>
> --- In [email protected], "hey00nanc" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> > --- In [email protected], Carl Davies <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> > > For those of us who appreciate all you have done, we
are
> > sorry you have to live this Kafkaesque nightmare in which
sniveling
> > cowards can file an anonymous complaint against you and torpedo
the
> > list.
> > >
> > > In the spirit of decency and respect for fellow
> > listmembers, I would ask that the individuals who filed the
complaint
> > muster the courage to crawl out from under the cloak of anonymity
and
> > explain your motivation and reasons to the rest of us.
> > ____________________
> >
> > To Carl and Rob,
> >
> > I want to set a few things straight. A while back, Zavie (I
believe)
> > got a small chat group together with Rob....people that Zavie
seemed
> > to know were not totally happy with the way the list was running.
The
> > group consisted of Zavie, Tracey, Rob, Lynn, John and myself. We
did
> > NOT have any hidden agendas......we told Rob what our complaints
were
> > (and some we had heard from others). People did not like all the
> > bickering on the list and the personal attacks. We knew people
who
> > were leaving the list because of that...or who would no longer
post
> > anything. The list was dwindling away. Also, there was one person
who
> > was dominating the list and others found annoying. I felt that
Rob
> > should have stepped in when Dane made his ugly remark to me. Rob
kept
> > saying we wanted to censor the list and ban people....wrong! We
said
> > have some rules for the list....some standards of decency.
> >
> > Then Rob turned the discussion to him being harassed for 2 years,
with
> > calls in the middle of the night, etc......and revealed who that
> > person was/is......and she is not a major poster on the CML list,
but
> > her identity is known to EVERYONE in this small discussion group.
Of
> > course, we are taking Rob's word that this has actually
occurred.
> >
> > The small group tried to offer suggestions for changes.....Rob
> > mentioned several times about turning the group over to someone
else,
> > and mentioned maybe a cancer center as an option. The group fell
apart
> > (mostly due to frustation that Rob was not open to any of the
> > suggestions that we made).........then Rob posted his 'new
rules'.
> > ________________
> >
> > This group did not complain about photos on the list or medical
> > articles.....that was a more recent complain on this list by 2 of
the
> > group members individually........so, let's not attribute this to
the
> > group Rob.
> >
> > I will post here for you Carl.....and for anyone else who wants
to
> > know......I had nothing to do with Rob being banned from Yahoo
and
> > know nothing about it.............................
> >
> > and I invite each of the members of that small discussion group
to do
> > the same. Let's clear our names.
> >
> > Someone had to have a bigger vandetta against you than the small
> > issues we were complaining about and trying to resolve....to get
you
> > banned Rob. Who knows.....maybe the 'midnight harasser"!
> >
> > Nancy C.
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