RE: [CML] Just needing to vent a bit

Thu, 01 Sep 2005 12:14:10 -0700

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TERRY YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT ROAD NOW . spending time with your son is the best . i have a 13 yr old and he was 11 when i found out i had cml . i talked to him about it tried to explian it the best i could and even share my e-mails on how good everyone is doing on the gleevec . i take him from time to time with me to the doctor when i go and he can ask his own questions and see what i go through . all kids are different but it seemed to help him deal with it when he felt included not protected from it . he said we are in this together because we are a family and we would beat this together , he even told me that he prayed for me at church and that he knew GOD would heal me . after i stopped crying from what he said i used that love he was giving me to make me stronger and give me another reason to push onward. his mother and i had been divorced for 5 yrs but she was very supportive and was very harsh on my fiance for leaving me , never know where your support will come from . the woman that i wanted to spend my life with let me down and the one who i didn't think cared rose to be very supportive  , her and her husband both even volunteered to get tested if i needed a BMT . life is funny like that , you never know what might come from a sititution . i don't look at cml as a set back just a challenge and a way to see life as a more beautiful than i did before i had cml . never knew what i was missing until i thought there might not be a tomorrow , glad i got a second chance to enjoy life no matter how long i am here on this earth .feel free to e-mail me at [EMAIL PROTECTED] if you want to vent so more it's good to get it out .
GOD bless you and all the warriors out there .
Larry 
 
lexington , kentucky .  
 
 
 -----Original Message-----
From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Terry Dailey
Sent: Thursday, September 01, 2005 1:50 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [CML] Just needing to vent a bit

Thanks Mary,

You guys have already helped, and like I told Moe your messages are like
hugs;) I now live in Sellersburg Indiana, which is on the outskirts of
Louisville KY. I am going to take my time on trying to meet someone, I plan
on spending more time with my 11 year old son, he lives with his mom, cause
when I was diagnosed and first started treatment it was a bit to much for
him, he kept thinking I was going to die at any moment, but now he
understands I not going anywhere anytime soon, and his dad just can't quite
do what I use to.


>From: Mary Toole <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>Reply-To: [email protected]
>To: [email protected]
>Subject: Re: [CML] Just needing to vent a bit
>Date: Tue, 30 Aug 2005 12:09:42 -0700 (PDT)
>
>Dear Terry,
>
>I am so sorry that you are going through all this while also dealing with
>cml.  I agree with Larry that I think later on you will agree that is was
>for the best.  You need people who will support you and not leave you when
>the going gets tough.  Marriage can sometimes be really tough and now
>you've seen her true colors and a glimpse of what would have happened when
>the going got rough.  The people in this group will give you support when
>you need it.  I know it's not the same as having someone who will put their
>arms around you, but you will find that in the future, I'm sure.  And in
>the meantime, we're here for you as best as we can be.  Where do you live? 
>Maybe you could meet with someone else who has our disease.  Hang it there,
>friend.  Mary, dx 10/02
>
>Terry Dailey <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>Hello all,
>
>I do not post often but read allot. I was diagnosed two years ago and the
>gleevec has me in remission, but I still have major side effects. I was
>lucky enough I had very good disability insurance thru my former employer
>so
>money has not been as bad as I first feared. The only casultie since my
>diagnoses has been my marriage. Saddly my wife gave me the boot last week,
>she could not take the fact I was not like I use to be anymore I suppose.
>She was convinced if I tried mentally enough I could heal myself but with
>the last bone marrow biopsy showing it still there she sort of snapped.
>Part
>of me understands, we were only married 5 months when I was diagnosed, but
>she soon stopped going to doctor visits or even asking what the doctors
>said. What has taken me by surprise the most, and caused me the most pain
>is
>the resentment she seems to have toward me now. I know you all have things
>you yourselves have to worry about, but I really can't talk to my fmaily
>much about this cause they do not understand how I feel like such a shadow
>of my former self. Here I am 38 years old and having to move back with my
>parents..Well anyways thanks for reading this I just need to vent.
>
>Terry
>
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