Don't just send your lady to sailing lessons.  Send her to a week long
ladies only sailing class.  It's a LOT different than taking lessons with a
coed group.  She will not just get sailing lessons, she will get emotional
support, counselling, share experiences with other women, etc.  Chances are
it will be a much more positive experience for her.

I've had a couple lady friends do it and they absolutely swear it's the
only way to learn sailing.

Dennis C.
Touche' 35-1 #83
Mandeville, LA

On Mon, Sep 22, 2014 at 4:03 PM, Jean-Francois J Rivard via CnC-List <
[email protected]> wrote:

> I'll let you guys know how the lessons help..
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> Racing did not help, she clammed-up even worse for fear that she'd screw
> something up. Even if on that particular race, everything that could be
> screwed-up was already taken care of  so no one really cared.  No amount of
> screwing-up was going to make our last place any worse.  :-)
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> Giving her the helm.. Been there done that, same result.
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> Talking to other wifes.. It depends,  At the club parties it runs the
> gammut from enthusiastic sailor ladies to killjoys that never come out
> sailing, just show up for parties..  When she runs into the lather all they
> say is too hot, too cold, too windy, too sunny, too humid, etc, etc.   then
>  I'm loosing ground.
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> I'm banking on the lessons..  Truth to be told, if you're that much not
> into the boating thing, just sitting around on a boat is not much more fun
> than sitting around anywhere else.. Especially given the fact that on the
> lake, when it's (Really) windy, it's usually not very sunny, often a bit
> coldish,  so you have to look at the big picture to appreciate what's going
> on.
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> On the plus she's fairly athletic so maybe once she told what's what by
> someone else and understands better what's going on she'll get into the
> workout / physical side of it and get a little rush that way...
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> I guess that's typical boat stuff:  one more thing to figure out...
>
> -Francois
> 1990 34+ "Take Five"
> Lake Lanier, Georgia.
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