Look at other mailing lists and projects, e.g. Tamaya Incubator. There are a lot of participants with sometimes strong views on certain things.
A few aspects of API design were changed one way or the other. In a few cases single-handedly by just one or the other committer (like you constantly try to push things without asking others;-) Nevertheless you won't find a single personal attack or foul-mouthing there. There must be a reason, Tamaya proposer Anatole was recently elected Star Spec Lead by the JCP for his archivements there. Something you (Reza) will never archive the way you keep behaving.
