On Thu, Nov 25, 2010 at 09:47:05PM -0500, Marc Paré wrote:
> Le 2010-11-25 18:54, Robert Holtzman a écrit :
> 
> >
> >One of the best ways to help them out would be to (gently, if that makes
> >you feel better) instruct them that it is customary to do a modicum of
> >research and try what's found before posting a question to a list. Also,
> >the post should include the standard information, s/w version, OS, etc.
> >If you have been participating in mail lists for very long, I'm
> >surprised you don't recommend this yourself.
> 
> This usually happens as a normal course of discussion with people
> who need help. The initial contact may not have enough information
> and we usually as for more. This is pretty standard. I believe it is
> asking too much from a new user to expect this knowledge prior to
> posting. Otherwise, if we had that attitude, we would constantly be
> berating these people and making them feel like our help list is not
> really helpful.

Could you point out where I said that noobs should posses the
information *prior* to their first post? Obviously, the instruction
would be given with the initial reply. 

> 
> 
> >
> >This might be true if the contributors to the list were paid employees
> >or if the posters were paying for help. In that case pandering to lazy
> >users with an infuriating sense of entitlement might be excused because
> >one does not piss off a paying customer. The truth is, however, that the
> >contributors are unpaid volunteers who hang here from altruistic
> >motives and as such are entitled to the respect of not having their time
> >wasted trying to guess the problem from incomplete questions.
> 
> How can you be altruistic and still feel like you are entitled to
> respect from others? These seem like opposing concepts. If you are
> altruistic, then you don't care if people do not give you your
> "entitled" respect. You actually have to earn respect. People do not
> owe you respect. Otherwise, IMO, this would not make you a good
> candidate for a help list.

Respect is earned by giving the time and contributing to the list.

> 
> >
> >This may have little to do with installation instructions but it
> >addresses the flavor I'm getting from some of the messages that *all*
> >users should be catered to and the clueless ones not be guided into the
> >right way to ask questions but be tolerated and spoon fed. I have
> >nothing against clueless users. That's how everyone starts out but, I
> >remember being guided (sometimes not so gently) in how to ask questions.
> >I'm not advocating *all* noobs become proficient sysadmins but running a
> >few simple searches and trying a few things is a far cry from that.
> 
> So if you were guided "sometimes not so gently" when you started off
> this makes it right to continue with this technique? Remember, that
> people are here for help and not to be judged. The just want help.
> Again, there are simply too many unknown variables that may make a
> person understand "accepted guidelines" for help lists. A helping
> and friendly help list always wins over a condescending and
> patronising help list.

First, there is nothing condescending or patronizing in what I
suggested.

Second, if you would bother to read my post you would see that I'm not
advocating insulting, belittling, or otherwise treating noobs harshly.
> 
> >
> >As far as I'm concerned there is too much of what I call the servant
> >mentality on this list. I don't find nearly as much on any of the other
> >lists I'm involved with, including the ubuntu-users and firefox-support
> >lists which get their share of newly minted users who barely know how to
> >turn their computer on.
> 
> Unfortunately, a help list/desk by definition are exactly that a
> service (from where the word "servant" comes from) to people who
> need help. If serving people in need frustrates particular people,
> then they should not be on the help list.

You really do have a problem getting the sense of what I wrote. You got
that last part backwards.

-- 
Bob Holtzman
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"If you think you're getting free lunch,
 check the price of the beer"

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