I mesed this up so am trying again: Do whatever you like but don't clutter the list with ranting, raving, whining and complainint. We all get frustrated, but it would be most helpful if you want help to just have grown up dialog.
I'm sure there's a way to deal with this because it works for most if not all of us so pleas stop your whining? You wrote: This is really getting on my nerves and I want to throw this thing up against a wall or switch to VLC.
