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001 - Bob Krumhansl <bobkrum@er - Disturbing Dream
002 - Bob Krumhansl <bobkrum@er - Re: Disturbing Dream
003 - "Wilkerson, Richard" <rcw - Sadness and Sorrow -- The Singer
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From: Bob Krumhansl <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Subject: Disturbing Dream
Date: Sat, 20 Nov 1999 14:48:29 -0500
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>From: Cat
>Date: Sat, 20 Nov 1999 13:36:08 EST
>Subject: Disturbing Dream
>To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
>Yes, Bob,
>I had a dream about my now Boy Friend. He & I had just met & fell in love &
>lived in a big white house with his father, who has been dead in real life
>for many years.
>Things were going great were very in love. Then I fallow him when he takes a
>walk I find out that he's seeing another woman. They come out of an apt.
>there hugging and walking down the street in front of me. She doesn't know
>who I am she tells me how wonderful my boy friend is and how they met on a
>plane flight to Toronto. I drive her to the airport. Funny part here Pee Wee
>Herman drives by me on the freeway with his little dog. I get home she has
>sent a gift to my boy friend the UPS guy is there I'm signing for the
package
>it seems to take forever the UPS man keeps writing on the box and mentions
>it's a small statue. I open the box and there's a bra inside the box.
> Evie in MD
>
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From: Bob Krumhansl <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Subject: Re: Disturbing Dream
Date: Sat, 20 Nov 1999 14:53:06 -0500
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Hi "Cat" -
Your dream theme is a quite common one specially with teens and young
adults, where romantic relationships are in a state of flux. A variation
occurs with people who have been divorced and are in a new relationship.
The key issue this dream addresses is TRUST. The dream is calling into
question the dreamers trust in their partner or their trust in what their
partner represents in their life (in the dream it's related to the big
white house). The Pee Wee Herman part with the little dog may be addressing
youthful concerns (a la Pee Wee's Bigtop Circus) or whatever Pee Wee means
to the dreamer (maybe a fallen star?). A point here is that everyone wishes
their partner loved them with the same degree and intensity as they feel,
but the reality is that it is very rare except for short periods of time.
If you really love and trust your partner, the ebbs and flows will occur
naturally and the relationship will continue to get stronger with shared
experiences over time.
Many people think that this kind of dream means that their spouse or
partner is cheating on them romantically. It may reflect that possibility,
but I would guess that unless there is some waking reality evidence to
support it, it is highly unlikely. What is more likely is that the dreamer
is feeling physically or emotionally cheated by something their partner has
done or a behaviour they continue doing, and it is reflected as treason in
the dream. In the case of boyfriends and girlfriends the issue of "where is
this relationship going?" and the issue of "commitment" are always lurking
in the background.
A question you might ask is what would you do if this happened in real
life? Would it be the End of the Picture, or time to re-examine your
relationship? Sometimes we stay in relationships that are heading nowhere
and have outlived their life cycle for a variety of reasons.
As is usual, good dreams raise more questions than they answer, but only
the dreamer can answer them best for their life. Thanks for sharing the dream.
Bob K.
At 01:36 PM 11/20/1999 EST, you wrote:
>Yes, Bob,
>I had a dream about my now Boy Friend. He & I had just met & fell in love &
>lived in a big white house with his father, who has been dead in real life
>for many years.
>Things were going great were very in love. Then I fallow him when he takes a
>walk I find out that he's seeing another woman. They come out of an apt.
>there hugging and walking down the street in front of me. She doesn't know
>who I am she tells me how wonderful my boy friend is and how they met on a
>plane flight to Toronto. I drive her to the airport. Funny part here Pee Wee
>Herman drives by me on the freeway with his little dog. I get home she has
>sent a gift to my boy friend the UPS guy is there I'm signing for the
package
>it seems to take forever the UPS man keeps writing on the box and mentions
>it's a small statue. I open the box and there's a bra inside the box.
> Evie in MD
>
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From: "Wilkerson, Richard" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Subject: Sadness and Sorrow -- The Singer
Date: Sat, 20 Nov 1999 13:19:54 -0800
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Dream Title Sadness and Sorrow -- The Singer
Date of Dream Nov. 17, 1999 - at night
Dream I was in my school(I am an English Teacher) and I realised one of my
students had died. A 12 year old female(I am male). I was extreamely upset
and couldn't stop crying. I think someone was trying to comfort me, but
that's just a feeling, I don't know for sure.
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