June 21, 2007

The Lockhorns


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Out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks. -Luke 6:45

 
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Since 1968, the characters in the comic strip The Lockhorns have been
exchanging barbs of bitter wit and marital contempt. Currently
syndicated in more than 500 newspapers, the cartoon entertains millions
of readers as Leroy says things like this to Loretta: "Sure we can talk
now. Just don't stand in front of the television." Loretta, at no loss
for words or jabs, is just as likely to say something like, "Sure I
spend more than you make. I have confidence in you."

While laughing, we might catch a glimpse of ourselves. Sarcasm is all
too common, and far more serious than we might want to believe.
Heartless sarcasm can be more harmful than physical bruises. Solomon
said there are people who use words like a sword (Prov. 12:18), and that
evil words can crush the spirit (15:4).

Controlling our speech isn't easy, because the real problem is not our
words but our hearts. Behind the insults, we are likely to find in
ourselves an insecurity, fear, or guilt that tempts us to protect
ourselves at the expense of another.

Is there an upside to abusive words? No, unless we take them as a
warning that we're not in step with Christ. In His embrace and grace,
let's not lash out at one another in an effort to protect ourselves. -
Mart De Haan
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Instead of hurling angry words
That wound and stir up strife,
Use words of kindness, filled with love,
That heal and nourish life. -Sper

Abusive language reveals a sinful heart.

Kamis, 21 Juni
LOCKHORNS
Yang diucapkan mulutnya, meluap dari hatinya (Luk. 6:45)

Bacaan: Ams. 15:1-4
Setahun: Est. 3-5; Kis. 5:22-42

Sejak 1968 para tokoh dalam komik The Lockhorns saling melemparkan
lelucon pedas dan sindiran terhadap pernikahan. Kini dengan dimuat di
lebih dari 500 surat kabar, kartun itu menghibur jutaan pembaca lewat
tokoh Leroy yang mengatakan hal-hal seperti ini kepada Lorretta, "Tentu
saja kita kini bisa mengobrol. Asal, jangan berdiri di depan televisi."
Tanpa kehilangan kata-kata atau balasan, Lorretta menyahut, "Tentu saja,
aku membelanjakan uang lebih banyak daripada penghasilanmu. Aku
memercayai kemampuanmu untuk menghasilkan lebih." 

Sembari tertawa, sekilas kita bisa menangkap gambaran tentang diri kita
sendiri. Sekarang ini, kata-kata pedas atau ejekan kasar (sarkasme)
sudah terlalu biasa, padahal dampaknya bisa sangat serius. Sarkasme yang
tidak berperasaan bisa lebih membahayakan daripada memar fisik. Salomo
berkata bahwa ada orang yang mengucapkan kata-kata setajam pedang (Ams.
12:18), dan perkataan yang keji itu dapat melukai hati (15:4). 

Mengendalikan perkataan kita tidaklah mudah, karena masalah yang
sebenarnya bukan terletak pada kata-kata, melainkan hati kita. Di balik
kekasaran itu, kita mungkin akan menemukan rasa tidak aman, rasa takut,
atau rasa bersalah di dalam diri kita yang mendorong kita melindungi
diri dengan mengorbankan orang lain. 

Adakah sisi positif dari kata-kata yang kasar? Tak ada, kecuali sebagai
peringatan bahwa kita tidak berjalan bersama Kristus. Dalam perlindungan
dan kasih karunia-Nya, janganlah menyerang satu sama lain dalam upaya
untuk melindungi diri sendiri -MRD II 

Alih-alih melontarkan perkataan amarah
Yang melukai dan menyulut pertikaian,
Pakailah perkataan yang penuh kasih dan ramah,
Yang menyembuhkan dan merawat kehidupan. -Sper 

PERKATAAN YANG KASAR
MENGUNGKAPKAN HATI YANG PENUH DOSA 

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Ams. 15:1-4
15:1. Jawaban yang lemah lembut meredakan kegeraman, tetapi perkataan
yang pedas membangkitkan marah. 
15:2. Lidah orang bijak mengeluarkan pengetahuan, tetapi mulut orang
bebal mencurahkan kebodohan. 
15:3. Mata TUHAN ada di segala tempat, mengawasi orang jahat dan orang
baik. 
15:4. Lidah lembut adalah pohon kehidupan, tetapi lidah curang melukai
hati.

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