RE: [electrosex] TENS for women

[Dave Knowles]

Hi Holly,   My only experience in telling my partner is including electrosex in the list of “wild” sexual things I have done in my life in answer to a question she asked me.  She was curious and wondered if it worked on women and we then talked about that.  We are very open and honest with each other and these conversations work to bring us even more deeply connected.   My only advice would be to just be honest and loving in the way you share this experience with your husband.  It might be just as simple as letting him know how much you enjoy it and that it doesn’t in anyway interfere with your love and enjoyment of him (so he isn’t threatened by it).  If you can let go of any attachments you might have to him trying it out, he might be more relaxed about talking about it.   Of course you know him the best and are in the best position to know how to broach this subject with him.  Still, it seems to me that until you can successfully share your activity in this area with him, your relationship with him may be somewhat stifled.   Good luck!   Dave~     -----Original Message----- From: Holly [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Saturday, October 30, 2004 9:41 AM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: [electrosex] TENS for women   At first I thought i was the only woman here and was glad to see Karen's post.  I have a basic TENS unit and have developed some creative ways to use it-  AND it's A*m*a*z*i*n*g!!!   Unfortunately, I have not shared this with my husband.  He's a fabulous lover, a G-spot Master!  but... he's not as adventurous as I am sexually...  I would LOVE to show him how this can make orgasms SOOO intense.  Now my question:  How have others in the same circumstances approached this with their partners?  I tried to broach the subject last night and feigned mere curiosity just to see how he reacted.  His reply?  "I have no desire to learn about electro-sex."  *sigh*   Any suggestions? -Holly ---------------------------"^..^"--------------------------- ---------------------------"^..^"--------------------------- Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ADVERTISEMENT Yahoo! Groups Links To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/electrosex/   To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED]   Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service.