Hi Holly .... no, don't use small electrodes like that on him. They will sting pretty bad if very small. A 2 inch tens pad or muscle exerciser pad at the base of the spine and a metal curtain pole ring on the base of his penis would probably be best to start with. It is a good idea to get a ring which is slightly oversize, then wrap some tissue around the base of his penis before putting the ring over it and the tissue. Then soak the tissue with warm water . This softens it very nicely. Once you get him really into it then it just has to be an anal plug of some sort. The sensations you get in the prostate are just amazing.
Do not stim his balls. Some like it, but for most it can be the most excrutiating pain imaginable, even with quite low power settings.
You can also start with a relativley tight ring at on the glans with plenty of lube (still with the other electrode just at the top of his bum cheeks on the small of his back or even around his anus or behind his balls. A 2 inch tens pad works well for this).
He's a lucky guy .... I hope he responds for you, cos I know he'll be addicted if you get it right with him. Just be very careful to not turn up the power too much at first and put him off. As you go on the nerves de-sensitise a little, then you can slowly turn it up. If he says it stings then stop and try the electrodes in a different place. If you hurt him with it it might put him off for good.
Good luck ... Ezryider
lhoux <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Thanks to all of you for the replies to my post! I have to say many
of them provoked some VERY good thoughts! :D
I would never consider finding another guy who would be open to this-
I am very much in love (and lust) with this husband and I do not want
to try for hubby #5! (Took me FOUR husbands and countless other
lovers to find THIS one!!)
In any case, I think I will try the "tie him up" approach and while
he's blindfolded, give him a little stim! I have a great collection
of leather restraints and such but I haven't used them on him since we
first met three years ago because, well, *I* like to be tied up! LOL
Maybe I will try it out tonight!
Now.. a question again- (you all will learn I am full of questions
and it makes people crazy sonmetimes!) I use the tens adhesive
contacts with lots of lube when I connect. I've sort of modified the
'patch' to be smaller and narrower. One goes on the hood of my clit,
the other near my vaginal opening. Should I use these on him, too?
Will it be gentle enough? (I can take pretty much electro-stim!)
OR.. and I am REALLY curious about this.. is there something else I
can fabricate by myself?
Also... I've used play-doh (YES! Honestly!) to fashion a lovely
little poultice that fits over my clit and labia on occasion for a
wonderful subdued wave-like stimulation. (of course I only use it ONCE
and a small can of playdoh goes a LONG way!!) Would he enjoy this
too? On the tip of his penis and one on the shaft?
Oh- another thing about play-doh? Pick a color you like as it
sometimes tints your genitals! <grin>
~Holly
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