Hi Simone Redwolf Oshiro Rohan and all, Oshiro,now we know why you're taking your girlfriend for a week to Europe!;) You have a big problem to solve,don't you? Are you going to propose to her in the romantic city of Paris???;) I just can't help pulling your leg again!LOL
Seriously,travelling is truely a great way to break our daily routines and to recharge ourselves! We often change our way of thinking and dealing with some unsolved problems after returning from a recreational trip away from home and work!!! You asked a very good question that I haven't noticed for quite a long time! Yes,I suppose women are far more emotional than men... Sometimes it's a good thing,and sometimes it's quite terrible depending on how we balance ourselves. The modern world we live in demands us to be as tough and logical as men as to stay as competitive. I am in constant struggle every day since I wake up because I am aware that I've become more and more intuitive and feminine when years go by. Maybe it's mainly because I've learned to accept my true self more...LOL Good night,everyone! Claire On Jul 24, 10:52 pm, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi Simone, Elham, Pln, Charles, Claire and all!!! > > I read all of the replies and I believe I have many similarities with you. > > Firstly I try hard not to be upset, but many times it's not possible. When > that happens, I try to listen to a good song and sometimes talking about > what worries me helps. Traveling must be something really good to overcome > tough times. > > Pln, nice quotation about the 'rose garden'. I can't agree with you more. > After a rainy day, you get up stronger. > > Claire, I believe cooking is not suitable for me. LOL. Just kidding!! Now, > take a walk is a good treat to me too. > What you said is a well defined female behaviour when a woman gets upset. Do > you think women suffer more than men? Do women show more their feelings when > they are having a togh time? > > Have a nice weekend for you all !!! > Oshiro > > > > On Fri, Jul 24, 2009 at 6:09 AM, claire <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi Charles Pln Oshiro and all, > > > When the feeling of helplessness or hopelessness become too intense,I > > usually let myself go: > > crying for as long as I feel like while listening to the same sad > > songs over and over again... > > > writing down whatever in my mind in my 'dear diary'... > > > hugging,kissing and cuddling my darling boys for a while... > > > lying in my hubby's arms and recalling the feeling of being a > > protected babygirl... > > > If you have a cat or dog with you,petting them helps a lot,too as they > > can calm your mind down... > > > painting angrily anything that comes to my mind... > > > cooking something what I like to eat to give myself a treat... > > > going for a walk... > > > watching an old movie I used to enjoy... > > > hiding under the blanket and take a long relaxing sleep... > > > having a heart-to-heart talk with a close friend... > > > All these are my remedies,and I hope at least one of them will work > > for any of you who is going through a tough time,too.;) > > > Nice weekend to you all, > > Claire > > On Jul 23, 2:19 pm, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi Simone,Elham,Pln,and Anu all, > > > It's a tough time now.Because of the financial crisis,a lot of people out > > > there worry about how to get foods,and pay our bills.They also are under > > a > > > great pressure. > > > > Simone,I don't know what's your situation now.I hope it's better than the > > > most of people.The feeling of helpless is awful.Sometime,We go down day > > by > > > day but unable to do nothing about it.LOST OF CONTROL. > > > > I am unemployed now and I know this feeling.BAD.Thanks for pln,who help > > me a > > > lot.Let's focus on what we can do. > > > > Elham,what you tell us.It's helpful.I desire going out smiling the > > natural > > > those time.Fortunately,there was a solar eclipse,which happens 500 year > > > once.I felt it,which is Great. > > > > Pln,you didn't reply my letter.LOL.I have an idea those days that If I am > > to > > > be teacher,what should I do? > > > > Good days are coming. > > > > Best Regards > > > Charles > > > > On Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 5:17 PM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > Hi Simone Elham Redwolf Tojan Ayush Charles Oshiro Claire and all, > > > > > Elham has said it all what I wanted to say!;) > > > > > All those ways lead you to heal your body and soul...sooner or > > > > later...if you allow it to happen... > > > > > I have been through birth,death,losses,gains,accidents,financial and > > > > marriage crises,and etc.LOL > > > > > Come what may,as long as there's hope,life is worth living!:) > > > > > Just remember that God never promised you a 'rose garden.' > > > > It's going to rain sometimes. > > > > If it's always sunny,you can't appreciate the Sun anyway... > > > > > By the way,nice job on topping my record,Charles!;) > > > > > And Tojan,it's so nice that you joined us because members like John > > > > and Serdar may need your help on your expertise on IELTS!;) > > > > > And Ayush Redwolf and all other new or shy members,please post or > > > > reply to any threads you are interested in. > > > > Once you take the first step,all will come easier soon! > > > > > I don't particularly enjoy being the most active and talkative one > > > > here...:( > > > > Looking forward to your new voices and inputs!!! > > > > > Great day! > > > > Pln > > > > > On Jul 17, 5:48 pm, Elham Moazzen <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > Hi > > > > > > I think we have had a similar discussion before, Although it is nice > > > > enough > > > > > to talk about it more. > > > > > > First and foremost, I used to pray when things got too bad to do > > anything > > > > > about. For example, I used to go to holy places like mosques and read > > the > > > > > holy Quran and think in those situation and talk to God and pray to > > help > > > > me > > > > > and change the circumstance to a better one. > > > > > > Moreover, going to a nature and getting away from routine life has > > also > > > > > helped me. When you have some difficult problem, the routine life may > > put > > > > > you in a loop. Linking to the nature will widen your heart and calm > > down > > > > > your mind. you can see how huge the universe is and how tiny your > > problem > > > > > seems in such a great world so inspired by nature to try every > > possible > > > > way > > > > > to solve it. Since it is the way of nature. > > > > > > Talking to friends is another thing that can help you tolerate the > > > > hardship. > > > > > A good friend can at least listen to you intimately and even suggests > > a > > > > good > > > > > alternative that has not occurred you before. > > > > > > Finally, time will heal wounds and help solving problems. you need > > just > > > > to > > > > > be patient. We should practice being patient in comfort days. The > > > > philosophy > > > > > of fasting which many religions have is practicing the patience. > > > > > > Regards > > > > > Elham > > > > > > On Fri, Jul 17, 2009 at 2:18 PM, avnisha <[email protected]> > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > hiii everyone!!!! > > > > > > > here's something we all experience one tym or other but what we do > > to > > > > > > overcome it?looking forward for various views . > > > > > > > regards, > > > > > > Simone. > > > > > > -- > > > > > > "When you know what you want,and you want it badly enough,you'll find > > a > > > > way > > > > > to get it." > > > > > > "Successful leaders have the courage to take action while others > > > > hesitate."- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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