This discussion is getting interesting. On Sat, Sep 12, 2009 at 2:06 AM, drbenzoni <[email protected]> wrote:
> Hello rational men and multitasking women, > > when I was younger I used to be very rational in every decision I took. I > always looked for facts and logical thought before making up my mind. As > time goes by I have learnt there are no right or wrong choices but > opportunity to be taken. Now I am more lighthearted in taking decision but I > don't regard my decisions as risky or daredevil. I know there will always be > something not predictable to affect what will happen next and we hadn't > foreseen it, but sometimes it could be a pleasant surprise. > An important lesson I had is to trust people and future and give the best > of ourselves to not have regrets! > > great weekend to you! > > Alberto > > > > 2009/9/11 Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> > > Hello Pln, Simone, Jason, Headmaster, Eckman and all >> >> LOL Pln I believe that's the exactly point, women are not logical enough >> for us men to understand them. Men tend to find the logical point in >> everything, but it doesn't happen when it comes to women LOL >> >> About worrying about the future I'm not quite aware about it. I've met >> some male friends that didn't worry much about their future, and it's the >> same with some female friends. >> >> Great day!! >> Oshiro >> >> >> >> On Thu, Sep 10, 2009 at 6:13 PM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: >> >>> >>> Hello Simone Jason C. Headmaster Eckman and all, >>> >>> Simone,after reading your points,I realize there's a paradox in men's >>> understanding of women. >>> One one hand,men think women are indecisive, >>> but on the other hand,they also admit that women are better at multi- >>> tasking!LOL >>> >>> How can we be indecisive and multi-tasking at the same time?!:D >>> >>> That's why men never understand women! >>> We are just not logical enough for them to figure us out,are we?LOL >>> >>> That surveyor geo-engineer student of mine pointed out one aspect of >>> us which is very true: >>> He said that women tend to worry more about their future than men,and >>> men tend to be living more for the moment... >>> >>> What do you all think about his findings?;) >>> Where are you,Alberto,Paulo,Hani or Gail?:( >>> >>> Good night,everyone! >>> Pln >>> >>> On Sep 10, 9:26 pm, SIMONE AVNISHA <[email protected]> wrote: >>> > Hii!!! Everyone. >>> > >>> > Indecisive d word is most often related to women.But,I think it's >>> something >>> > which should we viewed from a person's perspective.It's very often dat >>> we >>> > come across people saying or rather >>> > emphasising say for ex- women take tym in getting ready,wen dey enter a >>> shop >>> > dere's no way dey r gonna leave it before 1 hr or so...,nd most of all >>> dey >>> > ponder a lot before arriving at a decision.But,s dat true?????? does >>> > everyone of us do dat?????? (plz don't take it personally.) I don't >>> think >>> > so... dis s only one side of d coin s d saying goes.Every coin has two >>> sides >>> > but most of us in our busy,hectic lyf's running around tryin' to catch >>> up >>> > wid each n everything tend to forget it.If women r so indecisive how >>> come >>> > dey manage both their work n home?????It takes a lot of practicality n >>> quick >>> > decision making ability to do dat.Managing both d places so effectively >>> n >>> > efficiently s not everyone's cup of tea n people admit it.Dis s >>> something >>> > which people should think before sayin' dat women are indecisive .Being >>> > indecisive s a thing which should be related to a person's nature.Dere >>> r >>> > also many people who admire women for their efficiency of doin' their >>> work >>> > quickly n efficiently.Not only dat According to surveys Women are more >>> > better managers den men it is proved n dey are also more sincere >>> employees >>> > also a result from some survey .So,I think it's more right to say dat >>> dere >>> > are some people who take more tym in comparison wid others in taking >>> > decisions but wen dey arrive at a decision it's well worth it.It's just >>> d >>> > way dey r s God has gifted Every person wid a unique quality which >>> makes >>> > him/her standout from d rest of d crowd d thing s dat each n everyone >>> of us >>> > should try to cherish dat uniqueness b'coz dat's smthng exclusively for >>> each >>> > one of us.And,d best way of thanking God for dis gift s to recognize it >>> n >>> > develope it.Dat's all I've got to say. >>> > >>> > regards, >>> > Simone. >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > On Wed, Sep 9, 2009 at 5:51 PM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: >>> > >>> > > Hello Jason C.Oshiro Simone and all, >>> > >>> > > First of all,Jason C,so sorry to learn that you caught a >>> > > cold,especially in this imprtant week of yours...:( >>> > > C'est la vie,isn't it? >>> > >>> > > Don't worry about those pictures.They can wait since I'm not going >>> > > anywhere anyway!LOL >>> > >>> > > As for your Bec Exam in this coming December,I'll find a suitable >>> site >>> > > for you to strengthen your skills before the exam. >>> > > If you are taking Bec Vantage,I used to use 'New Insights into >>> > > Business' published by Longman,but I prefer 'Market Leader' New >>> > > Edition (upper-intermediate)published by Pearson Longman. >>> > >>> > > I don't know if you know this business English podcast by any chance: >>> > >http://www.businessenglishpod.com >>> > >>> > > Then,Oshiro,I don't think other members from here know about the >>> > > thread I started at English Learner's Cafe and they can't go there to >>> > > read it,either as the cafe has been gone missing since last >>> > > Monday...for whatever reason,we don't have a clue yet...:( >>> > >>> > > I will find time to log on TED to watch Elaine Morgan's speech as >>> soon >>> > > as I can,and let you know what I think! >>> > >>> > > Finally,Simone,thank God,you're back or you're always here. >>> > > Tell me if you agree with me,will you? >>> > > Men often think women are too indecisive. >>> > > The truth is that when women make a decision,they often try to take >>> > > everyone and everything into consideration as not to >>> offend,disappoint >>> > > or hurt anyone... >>> > > In short,most women try to please everyone,and we all know that's >>> > > impossible,isn't it?:) >>> > >>> > > How to exercise sound judgment day in and day out is surely a tough >>> > > task for leaders and higher-rank managers! >>> > >>> > > A fruitful day to us all at whatever you do,wherever you are! >>> > > And Jason C.Get well soon!!! >>> > > Where have you been Mikhail and Charles at least,another role call of >>> > > mine as a motivation partner???:) >>> > >>> > > Pln >>> > >>> > > On Sep 8, 8:55 pm, SIMONE AVNISHA <[email protected]> wrote: >>> > > > Hi Everyone !! >>> > >>> > > > This thread is quite good.what I can say whenever we make a >>> decision we >>> > > > usually tend to make use of our logic,take into account d >>> prevailing >>> > > > situation which needs to be solved n d most intelligent part of our >>> body >>> > > > dat's brain.But,sometym's we are not able to come up wid a solution >>> after >>> > > > combining all these.So? den wot to do????? s we have to find a way >>> to >>> > > solve >>> > > > the problem which is before us?? dere comes our intuitions n >>> feelings >>> > > which >>> > > > most of d tym lead us to a right direction. >>> > > > Business decisions as such need to be taken wid very much clarity >>> i.e; a >>> > > > decision taken in a careless thought process can lead to disastrous >>> > > > consequences n can have a impact on the life of people who r >>> associated >>> > > wid >>> > > > it in a big way.So ,people who r engaged in taking decisions >>> regarding >>> > > the >>> > > > running of business tend to use a lot of facts,figures n a host of >>> other >>> > > > such analytical instruments n methods to arrive at a crucial >>> > > > decision.But,whenever dere's a big decision to be taken they also >>> maybe >>> > > just >>> > > > a little bit do rely on their intuitions n feelings.One may come >>> across >>> > > > interviews of great business personalities who in one way or other >>> also >>> > > > admit it dat wen dey are about to take an important business >>> decision >>> > > which >>> > > > is going to have a great impact on their business along wid all the >>> above >>> > > > mentioned things dey also pay heed to their intuitions n feelings >>> to >>> > > arrive >>> > > > at a right decision. >>> > > > So, I say important decisions wenever to be taken especially by >>> business >>> > > > honchos dey combine their facts n figures wid their intuitions n >>> feelings >>> > > to >>> > > > decide whether to go ahead or not. >>> > >>> > > > regards, >>> > > > Simone.(nice to hear from u Pln). >>> > >>> > > > On Tue, Sep 8, 2009 at 2:14 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: >>> > >>> > > > > Hello Oshiro Jason C. Claire Jason B.and all, >>> > >>> > > > > Sometimes,I find it quite amusing for me to make men confess to >>> women >>> > > > > that they trust a thing called 'hunch',too.LOL >>> > >>> > > > > Come on,Oshiro,I know men have feelings,emotions and intuitions >>> just >>> > > > > as women do. >>> > > > > A difference is that we don't consider them as something >>> unspeakable >>> > > > > or monstrous!LOL >>> > >>> > > > > Actually at workplace,women are quite aware of their stronger >>> > > > > development of E.Q. being in their way of decision-making or >>> career >>> > > > > prospects,we learn to rationalize our feelings and thoughts >>> before >>> > > > > making them heard or seen...;) >>> > >>> > > > > It's always imprtant to 'strike a balance' as Briana said once to >>> > > > > Charles. >>> > > > > We will lose sight of many other factors if we become too logical >>> or >>> > > > > too emotional,won't we? >>> > >>> > > > > We are living in a world where Darwin's theory of survival of the >>> > > > > fittest still works... >>> > > > > But whenever we come to this issue,I can't help wondering if >>> people in >>> > > > > the future,say 200 years from now,will be more logical or more >>> > > > > emotional. >>> > > > > I'm saying this because there seems to be more and more people >>> seeking >>> > > > > psychological help once they reach a certain degree of wealth or >>> > > > > success. >>> > >>> > > > > Why is it that the more developed the country is,the more mental >>> > > > > problems its people have? >>> > > > > Are there more men or women seeking psychological help? >>> > >>> > > > > What do you say,Oshiro,Jason C,and all other quieter members? >>> > > > > By the way,where are you,Simone?:( >>> > >>> > > > > OK.Enough questions for today! >>> > > > > Good night,everyone! >>> > > > > Pln >>> > >>> > > > > On Sep 5, 2:30 pm, chenzheng2008 <[email protected]> wrote: >>> > > > > > Hello Oshiro Pln and all, >>> > >>> > > > > > Oshiro,I know what you mean. >>> > > > > > In a few words,what we should do when we come across problems >>> in >>> > > terms of >>> > > > > our lifes and work is that we should resolve them differently >>> > > -intuitions or >>> > > > > experience or reason- at different situations. >>> > >>> > > > > > Have a nice weekend to you all!! >>> > >>> > > > > > Jason >>> > >>> > > > -- >>> > > > Simone- Hide quoted text - >>> > >>> > > > - Show quoted text - >>> > >>> > -- >>> > Simone- Hide quoted text - >>> > >>> > - Show quoted text - >>> >>> >> >> >> > > > > -- Simone --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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