Good morning Gail Charles Jun Jason Oshiro and all so quiet ones wherever you are,;)
It's very true what you pinpointed here. Asians tend to express their love with actions only. Mothers show it to their families with cooking what they like. Fathers show it with special treats like a family dinner or trip out on special occasions. I was also told and noticed myself that it is so much easier for them to say 'I love you' to their partners in English than in their mother tongues! They don't kiss or hug one another,either. Of course when their children are babies or smaller,they do show their affection and love more openly,but that's just for a very short period of time... Once they are old enough to go to kindergarten,they seem to naturally forget about their daily rituals of kissing their parents or children goodbye... I feel it's easier for men to say it than for women. Women don't say it without thinking twice before we decide to let men hear it. So my advice to you men out there:Treat it very seriously and react to it cautiously!LOL Good day,everyone! Claire By the way,where are you,Vera,Hani,Simone,Chaya,Eckman and all those more talkative ones???:( All the best,too!;) On Oct 6, 4:56 am, Wichuda Satidporn <[email protected]> wrote: > Absolutely yes for me. It is so hard to say "I love you" even though > parents. Because my culture do not talk romantic language too much. > Nevertheless, we believe only actions such as take care of, special treats, > or something. We do not easily talk the love. > > Gail. > > > > On Mon, Oct 5, 2009 at 4:12 AM, <[email protected]> wrote: > > It is absolutely difficult Claire after you have 10 or more marriage :) > > But please note, it doesn't mean you didn't love her anymore, it just our > > responsibility is stronger than just say I LOVE YOU! > > I have a little secret here, be careful with a man who easy to say I LOVE > > YOU, don't you think he say it only to you ????? LOL > > > Have a nice day > > Eckman > > Powered by Telkomsel BlackBerry® > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: claire <[email protected]> > > Date: Sun, 4 Oct 2009 03:02:17 > > To: ESL Podcast Study Group<[email protected]> > > Subject: [ESL Podcast] How easy/difficult is it for you to say,"I love > > you."to > > someone?;) > > > Dear all active or silent members, > > > I've been wondering lately: > > > How easy/difficult is it for you to say,"I love you."to someone? > > > When someone says it to you,how do you respond to him/her? > > > Do you think relationship between you both can change after such > > declaration? > > > How do you know for sure you have found the one for you to spend the > > rest of your life with? > > > Looking forward to your inputs! > > > Thank you in advance and wonderful Sunday! > > > Claire- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
