Well, as Ive been reading the various replies to the sex post on a couple
different Forums, I'm thinking, you know what, this whole thing goes a lot
deeper than we dare to even imagine. I'm talking about very severe
psychological mutilation, fearfully hidden, and if you start exposing it it
feels like an attack.
Of course, to expose a fearfully hidden mutilation is not an attack but a
step towards healing. But to allow that mutilation to remain hidden because
its exposure is feared, is to allow both the fear and the mutilation both to
remain. The egos pretense of benign normality is a desperate attempt to
conceal the intolerable madness that knows its very existence is an absolute
fraud. Only the monstrous masculinity of viciously aggressive deceit could
sustain such a fragile charade, hence making the fragility of feminine
tenderness a mortal threat. And so masculinity has been caricatured into a
horrific travesty of cruelty and torture, and femininity bludgeoned lifeless to
neutralize the dreadful peril its feared to be.
Disabled Creativity disables spiritual progress and disabled sexuality
disables Creativity, and disabled, maimed, distorted, repressed, denied,
perverted, feared, abused, misused, misunderstood, misperceived, blocked,
misconstrued, slandered, concealed, lied about, dysfunctional, imbalanced,
frustrated, impotent, frigid, maligned, hated, twisted, condemned sexuality is
the most widespread and deeply entrenched pathological disorder that afflicts
the human race. Wilhelm Reich called it the emotional plague, and he was
absolutely right. Its the egos most successful castration of spiritual
growth because the egos got so many people supporting that castration in the
name of spiritual well-being.
To better understand the necessity of balancing masculinity and femininity
within each individual, notice the obvious results if one or the other is
disabled.
The womanly woman is passive, receptive, accepting, nurturing, but not of
anything that she herself intends, so her nurturing acceptance must always be
at the service of others, making her a doormat at best and a slave at worst, or
worst yet an entirely dysfunctional basket case of no benefit either to herself
or to anyone else.
The manly man is bristling with assertive intention and forceful initiative.
But all his intentions and initiatives that would be of a Creative nature,
instead of being accepted and nurtured by him to their full fruition, maturity
and completeness, they are callously, impatiently and insensitively abandoned
by him and nothing becomes of them. Furious that his grandiose and egotistical
assertiveness falls impotent, yet with an intense denial, repression and
aversion of the innate femininity that would render him Creative, he turns his
assertiveness to aggressive destructiveness where it produces the vivid and
grandiose results that his egotism craves, and so he further infects the planet
with another manly man waging destructive war in boardrooms, in politics, in
military combat, in domestic violence and so on.
The male ego is in such a profound state of pathological deformity that it
would rather see the world destroyed than to discover the inner femininity that
would restore its wholeness. Fortunately, those of us who are willing to
balance ourselves back into our natural Androgyny will embrace these terrified
fellows with the patience, forgiveness and compassion that will heal them of
the traumatic mutilation theyve suffered in the face of societys monstrous
gender schizophrenia.
Alright, I didn't mean to rant and rave. But actually, this stuff does far
more damage left deeply hidden and denied. Unpleasant to expose, but much
worse to hide.
Much Love,
Ben
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