--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> --- In [email protected], "Rory Goff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > --- In [email protected], "Rory Goff" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> > wrote:
> > > > Yes, and I second Sparaig's rejoinder, that if he
> > > > *isn't* sorry and so on, he's not much of a friend.
> > > 
> > > Guess we have different definitions of friendship then :-)
> > 
> > A true friend for me is one who loves unconditionally, without a 
lot 
> > of rules and requirements either of us has to navigate through 
> > to "earn" or "keep" that love.
> 
> How does that define friendship differently from
> what I said?  I'm not saying that feeling sorry
> a friend is angry and hurt and not wanting to lose
> the friendship are things one friend should require
> of another to earn or keep love; rather, they're in
> the nature of friendship itself, it seems to me.

OK. I think I am not going to speculate further on what Rick did or 
did not feel, and whether those feelings or non-feelings do or do 
not constitute true friendship. All I can say is, if Rick had said 
what he said to *me*, once I got over feeling pissed at him I would 
be heartily glad he did not allow my rage to eclipse the love 
between us. And that's good enough for me. :-)




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