--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <vajradh...@...> wrote: <snip> > ...the point being is some people are unable to see > themselves objectively, often because of being so > invested in some "thing", some mindset -- while this > same mindset (whatever that may be) is painfully > obvious to those around them (or those being forced > to listen to them, over and over).
What did I just tell you, mahavid, about his continuing to make the same mistake? > So it's really about one's ability to be honest with oneself. > Sadly, IMO, the more one lives alone, without a partner or > the companionship of real friends (or lacking the ability of > honest self-reflection) Note that Vaj is careful to offer a *choice* here. If it were to turn out that I do have a partner and the companionship of real friends (as is the case), he can always fall back on the claim that I lack the ability of honest self-reflection, since that's not subject to factual verification. <giggle>
