Judy, just a general  response to your post. I know.
You kept on saying that he (being me) doesn't intend
the phrase to be understood that way. You will not be
harmed when the bombing starts.

--- authfriend <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> --- In [email protected], Peter
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> <snip>
> > The intent of my "tacky" communication was not to
> > insult the DimiDimickswever, it is quite easy to
> > deconstruct the communication and logically arrive
> at
> > the meaning both you and Judy came to. What sticks
> in
> > my craw is your privprivilegingr meaning over my
> > intent and then ,it seems, insisting that this is
> the
> > actual/real/true meaning of my communication.
> 
> Just for da record, I explicitly said the
> standard meaning of "tacky" may not have been
> what you intended.
> 
> When I posted about the dictionary definition,
> though, you could have just said, "Oh, that wasn't
> what I meant."  You could *even* have said, "I
> guess that wasn't the appropriate term for what I
> did mean."
> 
> When one uses a term that has a well-defined
> meaning in common usage, that meaning is
> automatically "privileged," as far as the
> listener/reader is concerned, unless one
> specifies that one is using it in a nonstandard
> sense.
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