--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > > > > Reaction formation. They're actually crazy about each > > > other! ;-) > > > > Actually, I do kinda admire Judy's intellect. She's > > often smart and incisive and well-stated. It's just > > that at the same time, based on ten years of obser- > > vation, I think that she'd be a much happier person > > if she used that intellect a little less and just > > felt things a little more. > > As if Barry had any idea to what degree I "feel things."
Just to finish up, by "feel things" I was still thinking of Tom's and other FFL folks' advice to you to recently to try to be with the sensations that come up when you get your buttons pushed, to "feel the body." Then in your description you just posted, you said: > > I'd characterize it generally as a feeling of > > resistance. It can manifest in many different > > ways, from "butterflies in the stomach" to > > feeling drowsy to feeling hungry to feeling a > > lack of physical energy, among other things, and > > overall a feeling of resistance to just "being > > with" those discomforts It sounded to me that what you were describing in that last phrase as the "overall" sensation was the *precisely* a feeling of resistance to "feeling the body." Was I wrong about this? I was suggesting in my statement about you that I thought you'd be a much happier person if you just "felt the body" more and spent more time just being with these physical sensations. I still think this is true. To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
