--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I know you guys would really like to see some kind > of repressed romance in Barry's and my relationship, > but that would be BEEG mistake. > > As Barry himself is fond of saying, sometimes a > cigar is just a cigar. > > It wouldn't take much to get me going about what > it really is I dislike so much in Barry, so if > you don't want to hear about it, I'd suggest you > change the subject. If you're really interested, > there's plenty to read to that effect on alt.m.t.
"Plenty" isn't the word. There are TOMES and TOMES between you and Barry. And the reason why people think there's something between the two of you is that there ARE these tomes. And if you "disliked" Barry as much as you indicate you do, you wouldn't waste so much time on him. Fact is, Judy, he is intimately connected to you in some way and you're dealing with him so intensely all the time is an indication that you are working stuff out that is very intimate to yourself. > > One little tiny hint: It has to do with authenticity. > > > --- In [email protected], "Llundrub" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > This below was well stated and goes to the heart of your > relationship. You,each of you lack something the other has too much > of. Barry, you throw the baby out with the bathwater and seem to be > intuitive, but foresake much of conventional logic. So lets call you > heart. Judy, you are a rationalist to the extreme, and throw the > bathwater out with the baby. We'll call you intellect > > > > But together you would be pretty whole. I think you two are like > two characters in a Shakespearian drama. So only a love hate > relationship would be possible, just as only a love hate relationship > is possible between the heart and mind. > > > > And if you merely love to hate, it's still a love hate > relationship. > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: TurquoiseB > > To: [email protected] > > Sent: Thursday, August 11, 2005 10:22 AM > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is trusting oneself a prerequisite for > enli > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > > > > Reaction formation. They're actually crazy about each > > > other! ;-) > > > > Actually, I do kinda admire Judy's intellect. She's > > often smart and incisive and well-stated. It's just > > that at the same time, based on ten years of obser- > > vation, I think that she'd be a much happier person > > if she used that intellect a little less and just > > felt things a little more. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
