Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is trusting oneself a prerequisite for enli

Thu, 11 Aug 2005 11:34:20 -0700

Yeah, just cause you don't see it doesn't surprise us in the least.
 
 
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Thursday, August 11, 2005 1:03 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is trusting oneself a prerequisite for enli

--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]...>
wrote:
> I know you guys would really like to see some kind
> of repressed romance in Barry's and my relationship,
> but that would be BEEG mistake.
>
> As Barry himself is fond of saying, sometimes a
> cigar is just a cigar.
>
> It wouldn't take much to get me going about what
> it really is I dislike so much in Barry, so if
> you don't want to hear about it, I'd suggest you
> change the subject.  If you're really interested,
> there's plenty to read to that effect on alt.m.t.



"Plenty" isn't the word.  There are TOMES and TOMES between you and
Barry.

And the reason why people think there's something between the two of
you is that there ARE these tomes.

And if you "disliked" Barry as much as you indicate you do, you
wouldn't waste so much time on him.  Fact is, Judy, he is intimately
connected to you in some way and you're dealing with him so
intensely all the time is an indication that you are working stuff
out that is very intimate to yourself.





>
> One little tiny hint: It has to do with authenticity.
>
>
> --- In [email protected], "Llundrub" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> wrote:
> > This below was well stated and goes to the heart of your
> relationship.  You,each of you lack something the other has too
much
> of. Barry, you throw the baby out with the bathwater and seem to
be
> intuitive, but foresake much of conventional logic.  So lets call
you
> heart. Judy, you are a rationalist to the extreme, and throw the
> bathwater out with the baby.  We'll call you intellect
> >
> > But together you would be pretty whole. I think you two are like
> two characters in a Shakespearian drama.  So only a love hate
> relationship would be possible, just as only a love hate
relationship
> is possible between the heart and mind.
> >
> > And if you merely love to hate, it's still a love hate
> relationship.
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: TurquoiseB
> > To: [email protected]
> > Sent: Thursday, August 11, 2005 10:22 AM
> > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is trusting oneself a prerequisite
for
> enli
> >
> >
> > --- In [email protected], Peter
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> wrote:
> > >
> > > Reaction formation. They're actually crazy about each
> > > other! ;-)
> >
> > Actually, I do kinda admire Judy's intellect.  She's
> > often smart and incisive and well-stated.  It's just
> > that at the same time, based on ten years of obser-
> > vation, I think that she'd be a much happier person
> > if she used that intellect a little less and just
> > felt things a little more.

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