And Denise, yes Winner from the perspective of the one who wanted to challenge me. Now having humiliated this person, I feel that person's emotions - hurt, pain, anger, because they are another part of me, how can I not feel hurt?
But I am able to quickly internalize and transform these emotions, both mine and the other. I feel joy and blissful very quickly. On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:19 PM, Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> wrote: > " > Hmmmmm......the "winner" ....huh. Your statement here is a bit convoluted. > If you have no agenda, then why do you have to "win." You make some > assumptions here about "the person who approaches you.".." > > Ravi - Approaches with an agenda that is, as in to confront me. Winner only > from their perspective. I don't care either way, but the choice to play or > withdraw with my playful humor or entice them with my love is entirely up to > my intuition. > > > "Yes...."if you so desire" you can use whatever tactics please you....."you > remain untouched." This is your reality then? " > > Yes. Since I'm ever alert I just adapt seamlessly, a bit unruffled at first > on a completely new situation but never throws me off balance. It's work in > progress anyway, I will only get better. > > > > > On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:10 PM, Emily Reyn <emilymae.r...@yahoo.com> wrote: > >> <snip> >> Anyway my 99 cents on this. The only way anyone can approach me, understand >> me, conquer me is through love. >> < >> I know this Ravi. This is true for all humans, in the end. This is why I >> sent you that painting - it really is a beautiful piece (IMHO). I think Bob >> understood what I was saying as he was the only one to respond, except for >> your initial response. It was not at all about my fixation with the male >> sex organ (and I do not have a fixation btw). Robin thought someone should >> meet you where you were at...that was my attempt :) >> >> <snip> >> If someone approaches me with an agenda to one up me, with a belief, through >> the intellect I will always be the winner because I myself have no agenda, >> no beliefs so this person who approaches me thus is completely vulnerable to >> my attacks. If I so desire I will use my toxic tongue and caustic sarcasm to >> humiliate them or may be like Barry says rip them a new asshole or I may >> just my playful detached humor to escape or use my unconditional love to >> spoil them with attention, love, humility and kindness. Either way I remain >> untouched, untainted, untarnished by anything outside of me. >> < >> Hmmmmm......the "winner" ....huh. Your statement here is a bit convoluted. >> If you have no agenda, then why do you have to "win." You make some >> assumptions here about "the person who approaches you." Yes...."if you so >> desire" you can use whatever tactics please you....."you remain untouched." >> This is your reality then? >> >> >>