Thanks Denise. Well because if the other throws his shit at me I sometimes double down and throw it back at them.
Again humiliation from their perspective. Humiliation is only a quality of the relative not of the essence. I'm not that egotistic to think I can ever taint, or humiliate the truth. Well the truth is essentially untouched like I say. I feel I only attack their beliefs, their personality, together with socially, morally inappropriate curse words thrown to complete the shock treatment but for the other it's a humiliation because they are so identified with it. On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:43 PM, Emily Reyn <emilymae.r...@yahoo.com> wrote: > Alright....I might buy most of this.....I am "taken in" by you...you have > pushed me and I appreciate that. But, while I do understand the concept that > you might feel the other persons pain after humiliating them....why choose > that tactic? It's not clear to me how humiliation really serves anyone > except yourself possibly. > < > P.S. I might be close on my posts. When the post count goes out...what is > UT...how do I translate that to Pacific Time? > > From: Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Wednesday, December 28, 2011 9:37 PM > Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: SECOND Open [non-performance] Letter to Ravi > Chivukula > > > And Denise, yes Winner from the perspective of the one who wanted to > challenge me. Now having humiliated this person, I feel that person's > emotions - hurt, pain, anger, because they are another part of me, how can I > not feel hurt? > > But I am able to quickly internalize and transform these emotions, both mine > and the other. I feel joy and blissful very quickly. > > > > On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:19 PM, Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.r...@gmail.com> wrote: > >> " >> Hmmmmm......the "winner" ....huh. Your statement here is a bit convoluted. >> If you have no agenda, then why do you have to "win." You make some >> assumptions here about "the person who approaches you.".." >> >> Ravi - Approaches with an agenda that is, as in to confront me. Winner only >> from their perspective. I don't care either way, but the choice to play or >> withdraw with my playful humor or entice them with my love is entirely up to >> my intuition. >> >> >> "Yes...."if you so desire" you can use whatever tactics please you....."you >> remain untouched." This is your reality then? " >> >> Yes. Since I'm ever alert I just adapt seamlessly, a bit unruffled at first >> on a completely new situation but never throws me off balance. It's work in >> progress anyway, I will only get better. >> >> >> >> >> On Dec 28, 2011, at 9:10 PM, Emily Reyn <emilymae.r...@yahoo.com> wrote: >> >>> >>> <snip> >>> Anyway my 99 cents on this. The only way anyone can approach me, understand >>> me, conquer me is through love. >>> < >>> I know this Ravi. This is true for all humans, in the end. This is why I >>> sent you that painting - it really is a beautiful piece (IMHO). I think >>> Bob understood what I was saying as he was the only one to respond, except >>> for your initial response. It was not at all about my fixation with the >>> male sex organ (and I do not have a fixation btw). Robin thought someone >>> should meet you where you were at...that was my attempt :) >>> >>> <snip> >>> If someone approaches me with an agenda to one up me, with a belief, >>> through the intellect I will always be the winner because I myself have no >>> agenda, no beliefs so this person who approaches me thus is completely >>> vulnerable to my attacks. If I so desire I will use my toxic tongue and >>> caustic sarcasm to humiliate them or may be like Barry says rip them a new >>> asshole or I may just my playful detached humor to escape or use my >>> unconditional love to spoil them with attention, love, humility and >>> kindness. Either way I remain untouched, untainted, untarnished by anything >>> outside of me. >>> < >>> Hmmmmm......the "winner" ....huh. Your statement here is a bit convoluted. >>> If you have no agenda, then why do you have to "win." You make some >>> assumptions here about "the person who approaches you." Yes...."if you so >>> desire" you can use whatever tactics please you....."you remain untouched." >>> This is your reality then? >>> >>> >>> > > >
