--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" 
<anartaxius@...> wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn <emilymae.reyn@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hmmm...
> > > 
> > > I scored a 3.  That's actually kinda pathetic; I definitely 
> > > need to think more of myself. 
> > > 
> > > Barry, I did the test for your internet personality and only 
> > > what I know and perceive of it in the limited time I've been 
> > > here. I scored you at 21, giving you the benefit of the doubt 
> > > that you don't like to look at yourself in the mirror and that 
> > > you don't want to rule the world, and a few other things I 
> > > had no idea about.
> > > 
> > > Hmmmm....glad that your own personal assessment of yourself 
> > > is so far from my perceived assessment! No hard feelings.
> > 
> > I suggested the idea, after all. :-)
> > 
> > Interestingly, when I did the same thing for Judy,
> > basing my answers purely on statements she has made
> > here or on alt.meditation.transcendental in the past,
> > and similarly assuming that she isn't big on vanity,
> > she scored a 30.
> 
> Gosh, I scored a 2. Maybe we should all fade into a gray background.
> 
> What is interesting is that our evaluations of others differ 
> so drastically from their own perceptions of themselves. 
> Another idea is that the manner we speak on the forum may 
> be rather different from the way we speak in person as 
> certain psychological checks and balances of human 
> interaction are absent on a forum. The monsters of the 
> Id come forth here. 
> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Id,_ego_and_super-ego#Id
> 
> So which, if at all, is more accurate, the way we see 
> ourselves or the way others see us? Each of these could 
> just be a evaluative projection of our own selfish little 
> minds, which of course will always favour our own ideation 
> and disfavour all others'.

That is *exactly* what I had in mind when I proposed
my own little "scientific study." My suspicion is that
the most accurate -- if such a thing exists -- view of
a person's personality characteristics would be the 
median between how we'd score ourselves on such tests,
and how people who dislike us the most in life would
score them. 



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