--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], "Irmeli Mattsson" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], "Cliff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > And somehow that gives you pleasure? Very strange... > > > > > > I think I will officially retire from trying to understand this > > > relationship. It clearly makes you both very happy, in some > > > way that I definitely do not comprehend, so I'll wish you well. > > > > > > > > **** > > Their way of relating to each other feels like a troubled marriage. > > Except that at the beginning of a marriage, > the two people think they love each other. > That they start out this way is an important > component of their later troubles which is > entirely missing here. With the married > couple, a betrayal of trust is involved, a > trashing of the original loving feelings. > > Why do some of you seem unable to accept > mutual dislike for what it is, and feel > compelled instead to see it in the context of > a romantic relationship--either originally > or ultimately--simply because it's between > a man and a woman? > > You're trying to force it into a pattern > that you're already familiar with rather > than seeing it on its own terms, and as a > result you can't evaluate it accurately.
**** I was just accounting about my spontaneously felt impression that I often get, when I read your mutual communication, and I can have it wrong. I also sense a strong bond between you two even if it is felt as dislike. Hate and love are not so different energetically. They can change places. Irmeli ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
