--- In [email protected], "feste37" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > But to her it's not "poking fun." It's hurtful to her. If > it's clear you're hurting someone's feelings, why continue?
On one level, I'm not really hurting her feelings. Judy *lives* to call other people liars. She has arguably called more people liars on Usenet than any other person; there are whole parody websites dedicated to Judy's propensity to call people liars. And the reason these sites were created (not by me) is that she doesn't understand that what she calls "lies" are merely someone else's opinion, an opinion with which she does not agree. If she doesn't agree with it, she often sees it as a "lie." Simple as that. She *did* do both of the things I said she did. But she doesn't think she did. If I trotted out the quotes here, she would go on for hundreds of lines about how she'd didn't "really" say what I said she said. She would nitpick about how she only "speculated" (for several days, in several posts) that I was a tax criminal, and didn't actually say it outright. And if I posted her a.m.t. quote: > ...goodness only knows what Barry's been > telling them about me. Given the fact that Barry > lies *constantly* about me in public--including on > FFL--the likelihood of his refraining from doing > so in private is just about nil. she'd find some way to say that it *wasn't* really a claim that I was bad-mouthing her in private email to FFL members. Judy just doesn't RECOGNIZE that she says such things. And when they're brought up, and put in her face, she finds ways to claim she never said them. That said, you are absolutely correct, Feste. On some level, she probably actually does have feelings. And it's bad of me to keep poking at them, especially when it should be clear after all this time it will never do any good. Thanks for pointing that out... ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
