--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Irmeli Mattsson" > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Cliff" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > wrote: > > > > And somehow that gives you pleasure? Very strange... > > > > > > > > I think I will officially retire from trying to understand this > > > > relationship. It clearly makes you both very happy, in some > > > > way that I definitely do not comprehend, so I'll wish you well. > > > > > > > > > > > **** > > > Their way of relating to each other feels like a troubled > marriage. > > > > Except that at the beginning of a marriage, > > the two people think they love each other. > > That they start out this way is an important > > component of their later troubles which is > > entirely missing here. With the married > > couple, a betrayal of trust is involved, a > > trashing of the original loving feelings. > > > > Why do some of you seem unable to accept > > mutual dislike for what it is, and feel > > compelled instead to see it in the context of > > a romantic relationship--either originally > > or ultimately--simply because it's between > > a man and a woman? > > > > You're trying to force it into a pattern > > that you're already familiar with rather > > than seeing it on its own terms, and as a > > result you can't evaluate it accurately. > > Or, they're just teasing, you although you do tend towards dothing > to protest to much...
I don't think Irmeli was teasing; that doesn't seem to be his style. As to "protesting too much," *any* protest against an idea to which one is firmly wedded would appear to be "too much," no? ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
