--- In [email protected], laughinggull108 <no_reply@...> wrote:
>
> --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote:
> >
> > --- In [email protected], laughinggull108 <no_reply@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Aw shucks, dumbass, I was rooting for ya not only that you
> > > *would* do it but *could* do it...very similar to the "dog
> > > ate my homework". Well, Steve, it'll remain in the holy
> > > archives that you *did* try, just as others here have
> > > asked those "in the know" to interpret the writings of you
> > > know who.
> > 
> > Uh-oh, LG, you're going the route of the other prevaricators
> > around here. One of their tricks is not to use names, which
> > they think makes it safe for them to seriously distort an
> > incident in which these pseudo-anonymous folks have been
> > involved, making it sound shifty.
> 
> My purposeful removal of names, as in this case, was so as 
> not to bring more attention to those that probably crave it.

Although it may not be completely applicable to your
example, LG, one of the things that the self-important
petty tyrants always miss is the "tactical advantage"
(a la the Castaneda quotes I posted earlier) of speak-
ing generically, without "naming names."

I don't know about you, but when I do this, there are
often *several* individuals I might be talking about,
ALL of whom fit the generic, stereotypical portrait 
I've painted with my words. 

But by speaking generically, you (or at least I) set 
a trap for the petty tyrants. Their self-importance 
(a form of narcissism, after all) almost always leads
them to believe that what I wrote was "all about them,"
so they reply, all in a huff and offended and on the
warpath, *demonstrating* their attachment to their
own importance, ego, and compulsively-controlled
public image. 

As Castaneda delineated in the quotes I posted, this
is a way of *using* the weaknesses of the self-
important to push their self-importance buttons, so
that they reply to generic descriptions AS IF they
really were "all about them." 

It's a way of getting them to admit that the descrip-
tions are ACCURATE -- so accurate, in fact, that they
merely *assumed* that we were talking about them
personally. 



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