Bhairitu, Your point is well taken. There are also many other areas in life that have to be taken into consideration. There's another case of an individual who has the conjunction of Venus and Mars. This conjunction is notorious for making an individual passionate and sexual. It would be harsh to tell the person NOT to get married.
IMO, the best alternative advice is for the person to find a partner who has a similar relationship between the two planets. If that person is found, then the couple can get married. On the other hand, the person can choose to remain single, which would be more difficult but not impossible. Specifically, KN Rao, one of my jyotish teachers, has the same conjunction in his chart. His mother told him that as a mother she would prefer him to be a married. But as an astrologer, she would advise him not to get married. Also, Brendan Feeley, another one of my jyotish teachers, had the same conjunction. When he was in the Vaishnava monastery in India, his guru told him to disavow marriage. But, in spite of that advice, he left the ashram and got married to live here in the USA. To the best of my knowledge, he is still married as of date. JR --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu <noozguru@...> wrote: > > The first thing ANY jyotishi should look at in a horoscope is if the > person has karma for marriage at all. Some folks even have a sanyassi > yoga in their horoscope classically forbidding marriage. I recall > looking at someone's chart one time and saying they had no karma for > marriage. They laughed and said they'd been married three times. I > said, "yup, no karma for marriage." > > Nothing wrong with challenging that karma though but the test may just > prove it correct. Sometimes if a person meets someone they like then > like magic someone else pops up to take that person away from them. > > On 06/02/2013 10:22 AM, John wrote: > > > > Srijau, > > > > You have to understand the situation of marriage here in the USA and > > elsewhere in the world. The divorce rate in the USA is probably > > greater than 50 percent at this time. And this is largely due to a > > culture that primarily relies on sexual attraction and infatuation as > > the basis for marriage. (This is readily obvious in reading the lives > > of movie, television and entertainment stars today). > > > > So, with this background, it would be beneficial for couples to check > > their feelings with an objective measure based on a time-tested method > > that is available in jyotish. If a couple is advised of the > > compatibility analysis, they would be better informed as to the > > validity of their love for each other. As such, they should make a > > better decision for getting into a marriage contract. > > > > JR > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > <mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com>, srijau@ <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > I have read that compatibility analysis is only for arranged > > marriages and if two people are in love it is irrelevant. > > > Certainly there is much crappy (mis)use of Jyotish in the present > > time, I suggest you read PVR Narasimha Rao to get some insight into > > the present condition of Jyotish. Also Fairfield has a very good > > Jyotishi in David Hawthorne who practices a form of Jyotish that > > adapts to how the planets are really operating in the present time and > > does not take much of the orthodoxies for granted. I have heard that > > he was highly praised by Maharishi when he heard that he organized > > group program for people banned from the Dome! > > > There is someone posting in this group Jyotish "oriented" statements > > and I would describe these posts as nearly psychotic gibberish with a > > very poor understanding of Jyotish. Please do not judge Jyotish on the > > basis of such garbage. > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > <mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com>, obbajeeba <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Let the bashing begin! > > > > What if a Pandit says and writes that someone is compatible with > > another, then a few years later the Pandit says the people are not > > compatible and he only said that because he thought that is what the > > couple wanted, and that he only went along with one's feelings because > > there was love and compassion in a charts and eventually one would > > find out they did not like each other? > > > > > > > > > > > >