--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Rory Goff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > wrote: > > > Well, first, it isn't real clear why you believe you > > > know what kinds of experiences I've had. > > > > > > And second, it's interesting that you think my comment > > > was a function of being pissed off, for whatever > > > reason. I thought it was very sweet, like when the > > > cute new girl shows up at school and the guys start > > > showing off, trying to outdo one another to get her > > > attention. > > > > > > It's what males *do*, and thank goodness. If they > > > didn't, the species wouldn't survive for long. It's > > > just funny and charming to see it in this context. > > > > > I could be wrong, of course, but I got a chuckle > > > out of the image. Sorry it pushed your buttons. > > > > It's a nice image, but perhaps a little off in this case. I've > > seldom been reticent to share my current understandings, regardless > > of who may or may not eventually enjoy them. These have been > > percolating since just before the Navaratri/Durga puja last week, > > crystallized further over the past few days, and finally coalesced > > enough to (attempt to) communicate :-) > > I'll take your word for it. But there seemed to me to > be a sort of competition going on as to who could write > the most elaborate and flowery description.
*lol* I have indeed been re-exploring more "flowery" realms lately! Very sweet. Not a thing > wrong with it, whatever the motivation. If I entertain addictions to adulation, flirtation, and so on, as a substitute for genuine intimacy and appreciation of Self/Other/Self, those will indeed be "wrong" or "demonic" -- i.e., diseased, based around pain, an attempt to mask or compensate for primal fear, guilt and shame :-) ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/