Ha ha ha.  Blah, blah, blah.  What Share, *what* is an "interesting 
perspective?"  The fact that you do reduce things to "right and wrong?"  Try 
this on for "interesting." Maybe you really *did* take the tiniest, barely 
noticeable, exception to the fact that Ann and I were teasing you about not 
knowing that Apple has stores and "genius bars," but you didn't want to admit 
it (that would require admitting to a possibly uncomfortable feeling), so, 
instead, you denied it and told her she was "wrong."  
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote :

 Emily, that's a very interesting perspective.
 

 
 
 On Friday, March 28, 2014 1:56 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote:
 
   That's not the point Share.  How do you know that "you do not use Apple 
computers" is a *true* statement? Depends on how you define the word "use" 
maybe?  Maybe you "use" them indirectly as both Ann and I have Apple products 
that we "use" to post here and you are "using" my post to reply to.  I'm not 
judging the "appropriateness" of your choice of "right" and "wrong", I'm just 
reminding you that, based on what you wrote, you *do* reduce things to "right" 
and "wrong", thus invalidating or rendering inconsistent your statement that 
you don't think like that.  My answer to your answer is "I don't know."  Smile. 
 
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote :

 So Emily, when Ann wrote about me "you do not use Apple computers" what do you 
think would have been an appropriate answer?!
 

 
 
 On Friday, March 28, 2014 1:28 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote:
 
   Ok, if you say so. (RIGHT) I figure you are not very savvy technically 
(RIGHT) and that you do not use Apple computers.(RIGHT) I figure you did not 
know Apple Stores existed (RIGHT) nor did you realize how cool they are, all 
simplistic design, glass and that they call their computer experts "geniuses". 
(RIGHT) I figure you figure that getting out of FF twice a year amounts to some 
sort of cultural pinnacle (WRONG) and I figure you took exception to me making 
fun of the fact you don't know about Apple Stores.(WRONG) Is that enough 
figuring for one day do you think? (DON'T KNOW)

 

 Well Share, you indicated 5 rights, 2 wrongs, and 1 don't know. it appears 
that you *do* look at at least some things in a right and wrong kind of a way.  
Are you *sure* you know enough to use those terms, even as you apply them to 
you? Very black and white thinking, imho. I am surprised that you didn't know 
that Apple stores even existed!  

 

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote :

 Well Emily, Ann was making assumptions about me and I was giving her feedback 
about her assumptions about me...
 

 
 
 On Friday, March 28, 2014 12:40 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote:
 
   I understand what you are saying Share, but you still "interpreted" her 
"figuring" as "right and wrong."  Are you experiencing cognitive dissonance 
right now - in the sense that your behavior is not in line with your beliefs?

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote :

 But Emily I was replying to what Ann wrote which was all about figuring...
 

 
 
 On Friday, March 28, 2014 11:59 AM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote:
 
   But Share, we are talking about what you wrote, not what Ann wrote.  You are 
slipping into your shadow side again. :)  Stand up Sweetie...you wrote it.  

 














 














 















 


 










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