Share, the thought of you reading FFL and simultaneously tapping away earnestly to keep those negative feelings away is a pretty cute visual. But, remember, with EFT: "It is essential that the energy disturbance remains activated the whole time you are tapping in order to completely clear it. Therefore, you have to keep your attention focused on the negative feelings while tapping until they are gone. Getting distracted or thinking about two things at once can interfere with EFT working." http://www.eft-alive.com/how-to-do-EFT.html http://www.eft-alive.com/how-to-do-EFT.html
Also, as an aside, I put the word "using" in quotes for a reason. You've misquoted me. And, I defined "using" with an indirect intent - I was just trying to think outside of the "right and wrong" box for you....you know....you are a fan of Katie Byron's "work", right? ---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote : Emily, it's interesting that you say I'm using Apple because I'm communicating with people who are using Apple. Interesting but I don't agree. Also, I enjoy learning new stuff like that there are Apple stores and genius bars. As for uncomfortable feelings...tap, tap, tap... On Friday, March 28, 2014 6:22 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote: Ha ha ha. Blah, blah, blah. What Share, *what* is an "interesting perspective?" The fact that you do reduce things to "right and wrong?" Try this on for "interesting." Maybe you really *did* take the tiniest, barely noticeable, exception to the fact that Ann and I were teasing you about not knowing that Apple has stores and "genius bars," but you didn't want to admit it (that would require admitting to a possibly uncomfortable feeling), so, instead, you denied it and told her she was "wrong." ---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote : Emily, that's a very interesting perspective. On Friday, March 28, 2014 1:56 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote: That's not the point Share. How do you know that "you do not use Apple computers" is a *true* statement? Depends on how you define the word "use" maybe? Maybe you "use" them indirectly as both Ann and I have Apple products that we "use" to post here and you are "using" my post to reply to. I'm not judging the "appropriateness" of your choice of "right" and "wrong", I'm just reminding you that, based on what you wrote, you *do* reduce things to "right" and "wrong", thus invalidating or rendering inconsistent your statement that you don't think like that. My answer to your answer is "I don't know." Smile. ---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote : So Emily, when Ann wrote about me "you do not use Apple computers" what do you think would have been an appropriate answer?! On Friday, March 28, 2014 1:28 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote: Ok, if you say so. (RIGHT) I figure you are not very savvy technically (RIGHT) and that you do not use Apple computers.(RIGHT) I figure you did not know Apple Stores existed (RIGHT) nor did you realize how cool they are, all simplistic design, glass and that they call their computer experts "geniuses". (RIGHT) I figure you figure that getting out of FF twice a year amounts to some sort of cultural pinnacle (WRONG) and I figure you took exception to me making fun of the fact you don't know about Apple Stores.(WRONG) Is that enough figuring for one day do you think? (DON'T KNOW) Well Share, you indicated 5 rights, 2 wrongs, and 1 don't know. it appears that you *do* look at at least some things in a right and wrong kind of a way. Are you *sure* you know enough to use those terms, even as you apply them to you? Very black and white thinking, imho. I am surprised that you didn't know that Apple stores even existed! ---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote : Well Emily, Ann was making assumptions about me and I was giving her feedback about her assumptions about me... On Friday, March 28, 2014 12:40 PM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote: I understand what you are saying Share, but you still "interpreted" her "figuring" as "right and wrong." Are you experiencing cognitive dissonance right now - in the sense that your behavior is not in line with your beliefs? ---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote : But Emily I was replying to what Ann wrote which was all about figuring... On Friday, March 28, 2014 11:59 AM, "emilymaenot@..." <emilymaenot@...> wrote: But Share, we are talking about what you wrote, not what Ann wrote. You are slipping into your shadow side again. :) Stand up Sweetie...you wrote it.
