Good for you. Both for helping this to happen, and for being so "in tune" as to 
comment upon it here, in the midst of such misinformation. 



________________________________
 From: "Pamela Paradowski [email protected] [FairfieldLife]" 
<[email protected]>
To: [email protected] 
Sent: Friday, August 8, 2014 4:42 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Mental Health in the Fairfield and Meditating 
Communities
 


  
I don't ever respond to anything on FF but read posts all the time but felt 
somewhat compelled to after seeing this thread. I can tell you that the mental 
health coalition was started by a TM meditator that moved to FF about a year 
ago. He is a practicing counselor (has his Ph.D or Ed.D but is working under a 
Master's license in Iowa I believe) and felt that he wanted to do something for 
the community since mental health was being ignored. He has tried for a year to 
get this going. It was his initiative --not the school's from my 
understanding--that started this. He was a student there in the 80's, as I was 
in the 70's. I am a psychologist and will be doing some work in the community 
as time goes by--I still live in CA but have a house in FF. 

I have met with many of the therapists in town to get to know them and I can 
tell you that everyone is on the same page. These people are well trained and 
don't buy into everything the official TM community may state. However, many of 
them meditate and are very open to TM---they just disagree with the assumption 
that meditation cures bipolar, severe depression etc. They are very aware of 
the suicides---and having myself found out information about them--as always 
they were a long time in the making with the people who decided to take their 
lives. The sadness in the town is that it is so stigmatized to seek help. There 
is a lot of help there---and cheap---as people do sliding scales. However, the 
school has not been open to it. All of this is beginning to change right now so 
the students can get help. They are just normal kids going through normal 
things but as everyone knows--the so called negative emotions are not given 
much weight. So people cannot
 always feel free to express those aspects. And of course there will always be 
people who have more serious mental health conditions that tends to manifest 
around those ages.

The townspeople need education. That has been tried but did not take. There was 
a depression/suicide talk at the library a therapist did that was poorly 
attended. Having worked in the field for years, having meditated since 15 and 
been a student at MUM 18-22 I have a lot of opinions. I was angry when I left, 
as that was when we were told if we did not go to the dome we would create a 
world war.  I never bought into it but did not have any desire to go back to FF 
for a number of years. 

You can take what is good from TM and a very loving community and not buy into 
all of it. I find FF now full of people who are very well-balanced  (and many 
who are not). I live in Berkeley and it is certainly the same way here.   

I don't know how this coalition will turn out as it is a group with many 
diverse opinions.  As with any group, I already hear people talking outside of 
it about  the way certain things are being done. That is just the nature of any 
group. However, it is a start. The students seek help anyway--that I know--it 
is just that it may not be paid for by the school or looked down upon.

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