Share, I did not listen to the Hammond event. I have been reading Curtis' 
reports. I am basically ignoring Hammond because I do not think he is all 
there. Richard however is pointlessly prolonging this thing about Barry, 
already long past. Like Barry has expressed, I think Richard has sucked you 
into his world and that you do not have sufficient discrimination to see what 
is happening. Barry can be mean, no doubt of that, but Richard is wallowing in 
it in a very unhealthy way. FFL is for adults but not an 'adult site' in the 
way that term is normally pejoratively used and Richard is trying to skew the 
sense of what goes on here, which you seem to think is funny because you are 
air-headed in a good natured, but unperceptive way. I think of Richard as 
strangely devious. Barry is normally absolutely direct. I would much rather 
deal with Mr. Enlightened Flanegin than Richard because he is also direct in 
his clumsy and sometimes dismissive way. The only time I have seen you really 
sharpen up was when when you got in a huff over things Judy said to you and you 
responded like a normal human being. Your Pollyanna* act is hard to take 

*'Pollyanna is a best-selling 1913 novel by Eleanor H. Porter. The title 
character is named Pollyanna Whittier, a young orphan who goes to live in 
Beldingsville, Vermont, with her wealthy but stern and cold spinster Aunt 
Polly, who does not want to take in Pollyanna, but feels it is her duty to her 
late sister. Pollyanna's philosophy of life centers on what she calls "The Glad 
Game," an optimistic attitude she learned from her father. The game consists of 
finding something to be glad about in every situation. It originated in an 
incident one Christmas when Pollyanna, who was hoping for a doll in the 
missionary barrel, found only a pair of crutches inside. Making the game up on 
the spot, Pollyanna's father taught her to look at the good side of things—in 
this case, to be glad about the crutches because "we didn't need to use them!"'
'With this philosophy, and her own sunny personality and sincere, sympathetic 
soul, Pollyanna brings so much gladness to her aunt's dispirited New England 
town that she transforms it into a pleasant place to live. The Glad Game 
shields her from her aunt's stern attitude: when Aunt Polly puts her in a 
stuffy attic room without carpets or pictures, she exults at the beautiful view 
from the high window; when she tries to "punish" her niece for being late to 
dinner by sentencing her to a meal of bread and milk in the kitchen with the 
servant Nancy, Pollyanna thanks her rapturously because she likes bread and 
milk, and she likes Nancy.'

As a result, it seems like you are escaping and avoiding when people like Barry 
are actually trying to connect with you in a positive way. I think you are the 
only one here where Barry has made a real attempt to genuinely break through 
that Pollyanna shell you project. I almost think it frustrates him. It's like 
at a carnival where you throw a ball, or some rings at a target and it is 
rigged so almost always, the ball bounces back or the ring misses and the prize 
is lost. Things thrown your way bounce off, but always with the feeling of 
superficial and inconsequential connection, as if you are not really there as 
an intelligence that apprehends and ascertains. Perhaps that is why you and 
Richard have linked up, because Richard does not seem to connect with anyone in 
a legitimate way. I sort of see why the mean girls club ragged on you so much. 
Seeing the good in everything is not the same as acting as if everything is 
good and of no consequential import. Seeing the good in everything is seeing 
and understanding how the universe flows and how those flows fit together, and 
sometimes that means seeing into the heart of darkness, and the places in our 
own mind we would rather not visit. But if we visit them consciously, we 
eventually sail past them into still, imperturbable waters.
Why not do the conversation with Richard in private where it is less likely to 
endanger FFL?      From: "Share Long [FairfieldLife]" 
 To: "" <> 
 Sent: Monday, December 1, 2014 9:43 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Richard and Share
    Xeno, Curtis has posted something very cool about the Hammond event. Why 
not focus on replying to that and simply ignore me and Richard? Wouldn't that 
be more logical?


     From: " [FairfieldLife]" 
 Sent: Monday, December 1, 2014 3:33 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Richard and Share
    Maybe you should take this conversation over to the_Peak. We would prefer 
to discuss something more important here.

---In, <sharelong60@...> wrote :

Richard, your second paragraph about turq posting all the porn he wants just 
had me laughing my head off. Then laughing my head off at my own thought: can't 
wait!Obviously I've lost it, whatever it is (-:

  From: "'Richard J. Williams' punditster@... [FairfieldLife]" 
 Sent: Monday, December 1, 2014 3:07 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Stop The Porn, was Fairfield and M. Effect
 On 12/1/2014 10:32 AM, Share Longwrote:


turq, thanksfor explaining. But would it be so awful if FFL was an "adultsonly" 

We are all adults here,Share, so it makes since to make this an adult site. 

That way, Barry could post all the porn he wanted to -pornographic text 
messages, slang words for masturbation,pirated photos of rodents humping, 
photo-shopped images oftransvestites, and even cartoons of Lord Buddha with 
gender biascaptions using the "c" word. 

I don't know what his problem is, he is after all the "UncleTantra" and the 
"TurquoiseBee." Cognitive dissonance I guess. 

Now he's trying to prove he's an offended prude andporn-free - as if he has 
never posted anything that wouldoffend. Which is kind of weird, seeing as how 
seven FFL membersjust quit the group because of his smutty language. Gofigure.

But, you need to watch out - the lasttime Barry joked and chatted with a female 
on FFL,he reported her to Interpol and the Dutch police.Obviously he is 
monitoring our conversations.

TurquoiseB wrote:

 Share, I'm going to takethe trouble to explain something to youthat it is 
possible you don'tunderstand, being a relative newcomer toFairfield Life. 

Richard'spost to Rick saying that FFL is a pornsite was *not* a joke, and 
*not*friendly, given events in the past. Inthat past, a disgruntled FFL 
poster,angered over something petty, stalkedoff in a snit and then posted 
somequestionable sexually-explicit photosand/or text to FFL himself, and 
thenwent to Yahoo Administrators to "blowthe whistle" and get them to declare 
FFLan "Adult Only" site. 

As Iunderstand it, Rick and Alex had to jumpthrough hoops to get Yahoo to 
understandthat this was an exercise incyberterrorism by this 
disgruntledasshole, and allow FFL to remain at itscurrent status.

Richard made his postfully aware of this history, and thusfully aware of what 
he was trying toaccomplish by calling FFL a "pornsite."
If you didn't knowthis, it might have been possible foryou to see Richard's 
actions as ajoke. Now that you do, I don't see howyou possibly can. He was 
attempting touse the charge that FFL was a pornsite to possibly get the site 
eithertaken down or moved to a much moreprohibitive status. He was being asmuch 
of a cyberterrorist as theoriginal asshole was.  


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