"tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis"
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>
> TorguiseB writes snipped:
> Diggin' in the dirt looking for the cause of darkness is fine if
> that's your predilection in life, but I've had remarkable success
> with just turning on the light, and I'm not going to
> write that experience off just because others haven't.
>
> Tom T:
> I guess I have not made myself clear. What I am alluding to is that
> there a great number of people in this town and some here on FFlife
> that have both arms extended full length trying desparately to not
> look at or engage in dealing with major issues. They don't have to go
> digging in the dirt it is all around them and piling up deeper with
> every passing second. It is sometimes phrased as "Sh*t happens". The
> extent one is in denial is what I am driving at. Anything out there
> outside of me that can fix all these problems is not going to get
> anything to happen. When one finally gives in the actual dealing with
> the issue takes about 5% of ones energy while it took almost all the
> energy to remain indenial. The amount of energy expended in defending
> a position or holding off the ultimate disaster is tons more energy
> then it takes to let go and get it done. In the end it will have you
> either way, why bother avoiding it. You will either deal with your
> sh*t before you wake up or most assuredly after. Enjoy.Tom
"Not digging in the dirt" is the rationale used by many sidhas here
when they move into a S-ved home as a way of solving their marital
communication problems, or do a yagya as a way to treat their chronic
depression or OCD, or spend half their waking life meditating trying
to get over some early life emotional pain.
I agree there's a severe limit to the progress that can be made with
talk therapy that focuses on intellectual analysis of past hurts. But
the fact remains that you can't transcend your way out of deep
emotional pain, you have to go through it, and there are numerous
practical approaches to doing that -- pick up a book on your problem
to guide you to positive supportive groups, look into breathing
techniques and bodywork which are essential for emotional pain lodged
in the body, find a trusted healer who can deal directly with energy
body, try doing the opposite of what you've been doing that isn't
working, etc. etc.
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