Again, please consider what you would want
if you were Dukee. Consider it in terms of your life, your values,
comforts, pain, etc. Do not consider it in terms of money or
sacrifice. This will come back to haunt you. Have you asked Dukee
what he wants???? What you are describing, to me and in my value set, is
flat torture. I would hate it. The Royal Princess Kitty Katt
would have hated it. Frankly, I don't know how Dixie Louise would consider
it and hope I never have to find out. Please consider what he
wants and his quality of life. Listen to him. Go in and lay beside
him on the floor late at night and let your hearts talk to each other. I
really do understand the frustration, the pain, the anger and worst of all the
helplessness. And, again, I speak from a point where I could have
afforded all the chemo and treatments and ......... the specialists wanted to do
for Kitty. Money was not an object. The choices were made based on
issues my regular and holistic vets and I discussed at lengthen, what she told
me and ACs and what I strongly believe I would want (I wanted to make sure I was
not forcing my wishes on her so I had my friends talk to her --I
wasn't). My father was faced with decisions that would have lengthened his
life but the cost of the treatment (pain, dignity etc wise) was so great and
would give so little time wise that he chose to not proceed with them. I
think I am the only family member that totally understood and supported his
decisions. Again, money was not the issue. Try to take that out
of the equation, figure out what you/Dukee would want done then, if need be,
factor it in again.
If you have men who will exclude any of God's
creatures
from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow man. St. Francis
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