This message is from: [EMAIL PROTECTED] In a message dated 11/16/98 15:04:29 Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
<< He's a sweet horse and I have nothing against him, I just don't have a "connection" with him. Has anyone else ever had that problem or is it just me? >> It's not just you. Just as certain people seem to click, and others can grate, it's the same with horse relationships. Luckily, my own personal horses and I have always been on the same wavelength, but with some it takes longer than others. I know Juniper and I did not have an instant rapport, but it developed as we went through some rough times and some good times together. Sometimes also you need to just relax and do nothing with your horse. Take a long walk together, or sit with him while he grazes, scratch his neck occasionally, asking nothing of him. Sounds silly, I know, but it IS a good way to develop a bond. Just being together. No expectations. Give yourself and your horse some more time and maybe it will happen for you. Pamela Hoping this makes sense to you
