I don't know, I think it has more to do with humility and being
humble ... are we ?
Beno,
In the spirit of your recommendations and opinions regarding
criticism, allow me to be blunt with you in the manner you find
most effective.
Considering everyone here has expressed a negative reaction to your
communication style, it's pretty fucking clear where the problem is.
Whether you like it or not, whether you agree with it or not, based
entirely on people's reactions, you're being an asshole.
You can either accept the reality of people's reactions and adjust
your behavior accordingly, or you can refuse to accept it and
attempt, with more of the same behavior, to convince them to change
their perception.
Which do you think is more likely to be within your power to
control? Your behavior or everyone else's?
Here are some famous quotes for you:
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the
difference." - Reinhold Niebuhr
"Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over and
expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
Do what you will. Keep behaving in a way that other people find
distasteful and discover how quickly nobody will ever help you
again, or change your behavior for a different result. It's really
up to you.
This is the last I'll speak on the matter, and I have no interest
in discussing it with you further. The list owner, who has also
expressed a negative reaction to your approach, has asked for this
to end, and I personally think that if you don't change your tact,
he should ban you from the list.
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