Good Morning Steve and the Morning show family, I actually > do not know > where to start with my letter. I guess I will start will > saying I have > been in tears everyday for the last 4 months. I guess I > will also start > by giving you a little history. First of all, my husband > and I have been > married for almost 2 years. We met in college when I was a > freshman and > he was a junior. When we met, we realized we had a lot in > common. We > both grew up in the same city just on different sides of > town. So we > didn't know each other.We were raised by strong single > black women that > made sure we had the best, we were raised in the church, > and we both > wanted to get legal degrees. We got married shortly after I > graduated > college and we relocated to Chicago in hopes of attending > law school. > When we got to Chicago, I became a nurse instead and my > husband got a > position at a legal firm (long story short, we didn't > make it to law > school). We both are devout Christians and we have been for > most of our > life. We decided that in order to really move forward in > our spiritual > life, that we needed to forgive all the people we had > problems with > including our fathers. We didn't realize how much that > unforgiveness > impacted our own lives. I made it a point to forgive my > father in my > heart because I knew it would be difficult to find him. My > husband, > however, got in touch with his father and made arrangements > to meet up > with him when we went home for our family reunion. They > decided to meet > up at the park where the reunion was to be held because > they felt that > was a neutral spot. We went home for the family reunion in > May.. To my > surprise, my father was there. Even though I hadn't > seen him in almost > 16 yrs, I knew it was him. I remembered the goal me and my > husband had > set for ourselves so I agreed to go somewhere and talk with > him as long > as we remained in the park. After about 45 minutes of > catching up, I > finally asked him what he was doing at the park on that day > of all days. > He mentioned that he was there to meet someone special in > his life. I > figured it was probably just another women. Just then, my > husband walked > up and said, I see you met my father. At that point, I did > pass out > (literally). I woke up in the hospital a couple of hours > later. After a > week, my husband went back to Chicago. I remained in our > hometown with > my mother. I was not ready to face all the issues on my > plate and I > couldn't just go back to Chicago with my > husband/brother. After 3 mons, > I am absolutely confused about what to do. Even though we > have only been > married for 2 years, we have been together for almost 5. I > can't imagine > my life without him. However, I get sick to my stomach when > I think > about the fact that I have been sleeping with my brother > for so long. I > know deep down it isn't really our fault. I mean we did > everything > right. I know the obvious thing to do is divorce him. But > that is easier > said than done. I am not torn between divorce and my > religious beliefs > because we got married under false pretenses. My problem > is, I am torn > between doing the obvious thing and dealing with all these > emotions at > the same time. Please tell me what to do. I don't think > I have anymore > tears left to cry.
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